What room of the house were they in? What did your wife say was going on?
It was the office... she said they were talking... about nothing in particular.
this is a 14 years ago so some of the details are fuzzy and I wasn't in a listening state of mind.
I saw that he was at the house, i walked in and looked around, no one in the living room or bedroom, found the office door closed, listened briefly, heard murmuring i think and I tried the door and found it locked
I hollered, pounded on the door, kicked it,
They got it unlocked and open before I got it open.
She was embarrassed and upset at my reaction, my 'friend' was laughing at me for overreacting.
My wife and I weren't always talking at the time so she wasn't exactly inclined to give me a lot of details.
"we were just talking, what did you think was going on?"
It lead to another fight, which were having lot in those days... which for us, even in those days, was rarely a high volume exercise. We don't now and never did yell very much... We just have very intense discussions.