Re: Not sure what to do - Positive HPV test
It's a tough call, but again I would ask if it's really worth throwing away an otherwise good marriage over? Although slim, there is a chance that this was contracted in some way other than cheating. I doubt a VAR is going to clue you in, and if she finds it she will be extremely upset. Seriously, unless you think the previous friend would tell you the truth (you have stated this is doubtful), then your chances of getting the truth outside of a confession is almost zero.
At one point you said you could forgive cheating. Perhaps you should just focus on the future?
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