A little over 2 weeks after starting R as a BH, I was in an accident and got sick requiring a week in the hospital. And then two months in which I'm not able to take care of a toddler much less drive a car.
Wayward wife visited the hospital daily, not going to work. Since being kicked out 2 months before and lived on other side of the city (40min drive each way). She quit her job and started moving back in soon after I got out of a hospital. This was mutual.
It might have accelerated R as we had just started dating. But also we didn't get to date as I was being taken care of. This depressed me as we were supposed to be dating, not her taking care of a gimped guy (me).
Two months later she required emergency surgery as she fell ill and 4 days hospitalization - she could have died. So now I was taking care of her, etc.
Go figure. But that is what you are supposed to do... Be there for your SO.
Last edited by TaDor; 03-04-2017 at 06:13 AM.
Reason: corrected some grammar (was done from a phone originally)