Honesty in R
I am R with my fWW. My story is in a few other threads. There is NC happening between my wife and the OM. I have all the passwords etc and have been monitoring her. I have found nothing. I have done some research online into other ways to "spy" and have figured out how to recover deleted text messages, install keyloggers and install a secret cell phone tracker on her phone. I was trying to decide on taking these extra steps when R is going really good and with the monitoring I've been doing I have found nothing new to be suspicious about. Contact means divorce. She knows that, I know that. Instead of doing these things I decided to just tell her what i could do. In R honest an openness are a two way street are they not? She offered to recall the old deleted texts with me if Iwanted. That there was nothing new and nothing but the details I didn't know. I chose not to. She also volunteered to put a friend tracker app on her phone. I installed it on mine as well so we can see 24/7 where the other one is. This really helped me that she is so willing to do these things. Feels a lot better than me spying on her without her knowing. Like we are building trust together. Thought I would share. Merry Christmas.
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