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post #256 of 284 (permalink) Old 08-06-2012, 06:55 AM
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Re: Getting it from all sides - angry

This board should have awards for people like lascarx. He is the archetype of a guy who doesn't compromise his own integrity for a cheating poor excuse for a human. Not even with all his family drinking the kool-aid.

Hat's off to you lascarx, your threads should be pinned.

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Bump for instructive reading.

Lascarx was one if the great tragedies of TAM. He was a brilliant writer. Sadly, if you read his other thread, it ended with him being badly injured in a work accident. We never knew what happened to him and his WW never posted again after telling us of his injury.
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Hi @bandit.45 could you PM me a link to his wife's thread. I am banned from SI so I need a link to the thread as I cannot use the search function on that site.

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SI has a search function?

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Somewhat. If you have a membership you can click on the name but that only shows the last fifty posts only unless you have a link to the thread. Note they do not offer the choice between posts and threads. It seems like rug sweeping to me.

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lmao.....good old lascarx.

Post #35.....my all time favorite on TAM.....

"...reaching for that big old can of Floozy-B-Gon."

Spit my coffee out all over my computer screen the first time I read that post.

Man did this guy have his stuff together from the get-go.
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Hi @bandit.45 could you PM me a link to his wife's thread. I am banned from SI so I need a link to the thread as I cannot use the search function on that site.

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If it's not to much trouble, ditto also.
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It's funny, I always thought his and his wife's unusual writing style was too identical. Got banned from SI because I asked his wife a question.
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Hi @bandit.45 could you PM me a link to his wife's thread. I am banned from SI so I need a link to the thread as I cannot use the search function on that site.

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No I'm sorry. I don't even remember her SI name.
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lmao.....good old lascarx.

Post #35.....my all time favorite on TAM.....

"...reaching for that big old can of Floozy-B-Gon."

Spit my coffee out all over my computer screen the first time I read that post.

Man did this guy have his stuff together from the get-go.
He was sort of like the Mark Twain of TAM. He was a superb writer for a guy with no "formal" education.

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I think this was the thread that prompted me to register over at SI.

Virginia: "Why can't you kids leave well enough alone? Everything was fine until you started digging around."

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As I read through this whole thread for the first time, it's pretty clear to me that he had softened his tone toward the end, e.g., he mentioned the chance to take her back, or she is the best mom he'd ever known. I think the first two paragraphs of his wife's response kinda struck him inside.

I registered at SI but couldn't find the search button btw.
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What's his wife's SI name?


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post #269 of 284 (permalink) Old 04-15-2017, 09:23 PM
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His wife's SI name was "threw it away". There's no search function on SI, you can find some of her threads with google and that screen handle.

Her last thread (that I can find) says that he suffered a skull fracture on the job and was in an induced coma. There were no further updates after that.

I said a prayer for him and his children, although it happened years ago, now.
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Yeah it's tragic. He was a good soul. I hope he recovered and is doing well and comes back someday.
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