Just stick to your guns---no matter what kind of family BS pressure you get---actually down the line YOUR family will figure it out, and hopefully back your play.
You only get one trip thru life on this planet, AND YOU GOTTA DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU------you want that trip to be a good, and happy trip---if that means dumping your cheating spouse---THAN SO BE IT----Happy Holidays
From the way my family is talking now, I say they've either been smoking crack or been hit with the alien stupid ray. I don't see them coming around. Never experienced this from them before. Her family is actually being a bigger pain in the butt, but they're her blood so I don't hold it against them.
"One trip" is right, you've got the right idea.
LOL thanks Lascarx thoughout my ordeal there have been few occasions to laugh but floozy b gon! love it!!!!! does it come by the case? can I spray away my troubles? I can
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another was the Godzilla facepalm Thanks Lord Mayhem.
I admire your resolve its taken me a bit longer to get there but I believe I'm at acceptance. She wasn't who I thought. Another thing is you say you don't care about OM
but do you want your kids around the a-hole ? I don't! I'm putting his name in the RO's. so if she wants to live with the upstanding p.o.s fine but can't take my daughter there.
You're welcome. Everything needs to have a lighter side.
Seriously, I don't know that the OM is an a-hole. I would say let the kids figure that out for themselves. My older one can definitely tell me if he's mean or a jerk. That's assuming that the wife takes up with him, however. Like I've said already, don't know why she's not jumping at it, but she's not.
This is one of the big disappointments to me. I have discovered that my wife is not who I thought she was. She was pretending the whole time. Our marriage was not based on what I thought it was. Things happened which were not as I interpreted them, whereas she knew the truth yet failed to inform me. To my detriment at the time, too.
So all those good times we had now seem like make believe. I was in some kind of altered state of awareness, not knowing what was really going on around me. And what was she thinking about me the whole time? Not what I thought, assumed, or believed she was.
Friend, you've hit it right on the button. So what do you do? You get out of the tank, get away from that pod person. Spend too much time around pod people and you'll end up becoming one, that's what I think.