Re: Getting it from all sides - angry
I didn't read pages 3-7 but just to let you know, as someone who's gone through this, no one should judge how you choose to respond.
I chose to reconcile, and I'm glad I did, my marriage has been amazing since (though it's an extremely difficult process). But I could not and would not judge anyone who decided to leave their spouse after cheating.
It is such an emotional decision. There are so many things you have to deal with and internalize, no one can make that decision for you. If you've decided that reconciling isn't worth the effort, don't feel guilty about it.
Sorry you're going through this BS.