12-26-2011, 08:49 PM
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: SE USA
| | Re: My story. In sort of short form.
Originally Posted by Allybabe_18
Forgot the most part i had completely shut my friends out of my life since day one of the affair. My best friend who has seen me through ups & down since grade school didn't even know. When I finally told her after d-day 1, she went from furious, almost punching a hole in the wall to sobbing tears cuz she she said she was so disappointed in me. She said she didn't know who I was cuz I wasn't the same one who she stood next as our vows were said. Only 1 friend of mine has be negative on dinger for a long time so I have cut her out. I am worried how his friends will act to me because on has already cold shrugged me. I said hello in the grocery store & he starred right thru me and walked away. I am prepared for some choice words the next time the guys get together.
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It will be hard for dinger's friends who saw the pain he went through to accept that you are back with him. Just like your friend reacted, his friends will react in different ways also. Most will not believe he is giving you a second chance after what has happened. Most of his friends are going to treat you with coldness at first. His true friends will accept his decision. They will come around in time.
But, from what I have seen in your husband's post's, he is a man of high character and stability who loves you very much. If a "friend" cannot support his decisions, I have no doubt he will not regard them as "friends" and will no longer associate with them.
You are a very lucky woman - don't blow it.