You told her there will be no talk about moving forward until the poly is done. But women need to talk. Its how they process their thoughts. So she is going to need to talk to someone. You need to know what she is saying, and to whom.
guy is still thinking with his head.
You want to win a women over?
Here's the hows:
Sing to her. Women love music and musicians. They will open every thing they own to a Crooner.
Talk to her. Women love it when a man sings her praise in words. Tells her how beautiful she is, how smart she is. how good she is.....in the sack...in the kitchen....at work.
Women hear other voices a lot better then a man. She can hear things about what is valuable, what fashions are in style. Most commercials are aimed at the women audience. Why?
They listen....and they believe. They are groupies. Follow the groupies.
They learn "what to like" from others. Others, making "their" case.
When a women goes deaf.....she dies. She spirals into the ground and is neutered.
Now men are different. If you poke their eyes out.......... they will be blind, Oh Yeah, .....soon to be bland. A man without sight cannot harden to a world he cannot see. He cowers in permanent darkness.
Poor blind guy cannot harden to a naked women standing two feet in front of him. She had better douse herself in Cologne. And she better not be a cross dresser.
Now that I have pissed on everyone's Wheaties, I will crawl back under my rock!