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post #16 of 49 (permalink) Old 03-05-2017, 08:10 AM
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Re: Trying to Stop Wife Before She Decides to Cheat.

Straight forward like Gus Polinski and no choice have suggested is the correct way. Visiting her workplace for lunch with flowers is a good idea. No babysitter, no problem, bring your daughter with and say she wanted to tell mommy she loves her. Then maybe whisper in your wife's ear that she wanted to see the eye candy. This should get a horrorifying look from your wife. Ask her to go to lunch then if she won't introduce you to them. Then walk out and turn your phone off.

Do not make any contact at all, leave her to her head spinning. When your wife gets home, be ready for work, as soon as she comes through the door te her you were called into work early and leave. Again leave her with her head spinning, but be sure you can access your wife's iPad the following morning. I guarantee you your wife will have a very good conversation with the toxic friend that could tell you very much.

Also call your wife's toxic friends husband and make him aware. Tell him your wife agreed that said toxic friend should have her fun, this will ensure that both you and toxic friends husband won't want the wives to be friends. Tell the husband you have the information backed up if he needs any of it. This will also make your toxic friend call your wife.

What you need is shock value, nice guy doesn't work. If you shock your wife enough and she sees toxic friends life blow up she may not want to enter an affair now. Perhaps I sound cruel to you, I assure you I'm not cruel, but this needs to blow up in your wife's face.

When you come home from work your wife may want to talk. Talk to her, tell her how you know a guy who is very in love with his wife. That love is not reciprocated back to him. Tell her how this guy feels, but you would never condone an affair under any circumstances. Then tell her this guys story is you, and now you know that eye candy at work is why she can't reciprocate. Tell her your boundaries, that you feel they can't be crossed, and if they are swift and decisive action will result.

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No beta bull****. The other guy went that route and look what it netted him: a "Devil's threesome", a cheating wife, and, before too long, children that look nothing at all like him.

Get out in front of this, and do it NOW.

And if she gives you any "invading her privacy" bull****, stop her dead in her tracks and point out that she's on the cusp of inviting others to invade your marriage, home, and family.

Bull**** over.

New job.

Toxic friend gone.

Affair exposed.

OR divorce.

Oh, and the night shift crap needs to be over as well.

You can't expect to have a decent marriage if you're not spending quality time together, and roommates trading off kid duty doesn't really qualify.

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I was where you were for a long time. My wife wasn't "ready" after childbirth, so I stopped initiating, believing that someday she'd come to me and tell me when she was. In the meantime, I showered her with compliments, earned good money, and was an all-around nice guy. None of it was reciprocated even though I needed some words of affection to make up for the shortfall in physical affection. Finally, one day I had a tearful breakdown where I asked her why we couldn't make love and why she wasn't interested in me. Why wasn't I her "Prince Charming"? She patted my arm, assured me that I was and that she would work on it. She was even going to talk to her gynecologist about it.

That conversation was followed by a sexual drought that was even longer than the first. But I still believed someday that she'd be "ready". Then I started having the sleepless nights, wondering what was so wrong with me. What did other men do that made them deserve the things I couldn't have? I had told her how important it was to me, and she had basically ignored it. Not only had she failed as a wife, she'd failed as a friend.

Finally I gave up. I just accepted that we were never going to make love again. So one day I told her this. I told her that I'd always stay with her (we have kids and are good friends), but I was just looking for the reason why she wasn't interested in me. I told her she had to finally be honest with me. She insisted that nothing was wrong and that we could work on it. I told her not to bother--again, I'd already given up and at this point I just wanted to know the reason. She broke into tears and fell her knees and said we could work on it. No thanks. Having sex with me under duress doesn't count anyway. Begging me to believe her that she'd always wanted me, blah blah. I told her that it was too late now, and I'd never really be convinced. Excuses about her strict Catholic mother, blah blah.

Long story short, we make love on a regular basis now and it has improved our emotional relationship in a way I never expected. But to be honest, it still doesn't "count" to some extent. It's permanently tainted. It was supposed to be a mutual thing. I deserved to be desired without having to force the issue. But things are still much better. And I assert myself now in a way I didn't before. I'll tell her when I'm angry. I think before I was tiptoeing around her, hoping that my niceness would finally make her "ready". What a joke.

So what I did learn is that being the "nice guy" and waiting around for your wife's affection just doesn't work. Women don't have a lot of respect for the "nice guy" and that translates into a lack of physical interest. Assert your position and stand your ground. Let her know that you have no desire to have another child with a woman who appears to have little interest in even being a wife. She needs to face the specter of losing you to appreciate what she has.
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This is where today's modern man falls.

Your wife is thinking about/wanting to bang other men.

Your wife has you running and jumping through hoops to try and freshen up the marriage and apparently she "approves".

Your wife has a friend actively banging another dude as well as banging this dude with her husband..and your wife approves.

You know your wife wants to bang another man and yet you "coyly" want to tip toe around the subject and ask her politely if she's planning on cheating.

Not to mention she wants to (without even consulting you) to bring another child into the world.

So by your own words, you're merely a provider as well as a sperm donor.

No advice needs to be given because as a man if you can't see and correct what's wrong then that's on you.




OP,

The title of your thread should be "Wife Is Already cheating On me". Now please read the above from another poster. This is the narrative that too many men fall into these days and why they to their own mental destruction continue to play ostrich. And everything your wife and most women read in everything aimed at them is that this is all ok if it makes them happy and that men just need to suck it up. They are told repeatedly in all the womens magazines, TV shows, and all social media that affairs are fun and glamorous and just do it iof it makes you happy,.

So lets recap here. You have documented evidence not only that her great girlfriends is banging other men and her husband has said its Ok, and your wife is putting her head together with this person trying to figure out the best way to do it herself. my friend, she is already cheating, just has not found the penis to hop on yet or the time to do it.

Just my opinion. But you now know how she will attempt to fol you, which is by telling you she is going out with co workers. Worst thing you can do is show up at her work with or without child because all that does is alert her that you are on to something.

What you really have to decide is if you want to try to stop this and snap hero out of it, or if you want to wait until she actually bangs another man. You are not in any court of law so you do not need "proof" that you can present a judge unless you are in a state that infidelity impacts divorce. I can almost guarantee you that if you sit on your hands here, you are going to kick yourself in the ass once you actually do know she did it because you made no attempt to get in front of it.

My recommendation is you CONFRONT aggressively and with consequences if it continues. I believe you hacked her e mail or found these conversations with girlfriends some other way. This friend has to go IMMEDIATELY . NO NEGOTIATION.
Her reaction is going to be anger at you for daring to invade her privacy to plan banging other men.

If you want to go the route of playing dumb, get a VAR in her car asap, and there is no doubt she will share with girlfriend when it will happen and when she is going to lie to you about going out with work colleagues. She is obviously flirting with someone at work and you can bet your bottom dollar he will be there or with her alone. And this idiot friend of hers will either be cover or an alibi.

Now you can use your child as an excuse not to do anything or whatever you want. You wanted advice on how to stop your wife from cheating. You can't do that but you sure as hell can make sure when she does it you have divorce papers ready for her.
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straight forward like gus polinski and no choice have suggested is the correct way. Visiting her workplace for lunch with flowers is a good idea. No babysitter, no problem, bring your daughter with and say she wanted to tell mommy she loves her. then maybe whisper in your wife's ear that she wanted to see the eye candy. this should get a horrorifying look from your wife. Ask her to go to lunch then if she won't introduce you to them. Then walk out and turn your phone off.

Do not make any contact at all, leave her to her head spinning. When your wife gets home, be ready for work, as soon as she comes through the door te her you were called into work early and leave. Again leave her with her head spinning, but be sure you can access your wife's ipad the following morning. I guarantee you your wife will have a very good conversation with the toxic friend that could tell you very much.

also call your wife's toxic friends husband and make him aware. tell him your wife agreed that said toxic friend should have her fun, this will ensure that both you and toxic friends husband won't want the wives to be friends. Tell the husband you have the information backed up if he needs any of it. This will also make your toxic friend call your wife.

What you need is shock value, nice guy doesn't work. If you shock your wife enough and she sees toxic friends life blow up she may not want to enter an affair now. Perhaps i sound cruel to you, i assure you i'm not cruel, but this needs to blow up in your wife's face.

When you come home from work your wife may want to talk. Talk to her, tell her how you know a guy who is very in love with his wife. That love is not reciprocated back to him. Tell her how this guy feels, but you would never condone an affair under any circumstances. Then tell her this guys story is you, and now you know that eye candy at work is why she can't reciprocate. Tell her your boundaries, that you feel they can't be crossed, and if they are swift and decisive action will result.

Best of luck to you.


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I guess I’m trying to figure out how to steer her away from temptation and her toxic best friend and back towards her family before she makes a decision she can't turn back from.


This is not your marriage at stake. It's your life. It's you children's lives at stake. Your wife isn't interested in you. She can be again, but it's her choice, not yours. She needs to be told what the consequences will be.

Do not confront and wimp out. Make up your mind that if you are going to say the word divorce, you will do it. No problems for you. You know you will be fine.

It's her choice what she wants to do.

Period.

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This is what you do, ASAP.

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Get a consultation from an attorney (sometimes the first is free). Have the attorney give you a letter that you have discussed divorce with him/her. With cold steely eyes give this letter to your wife and tell her that you know about her discussions on how she could cheat on you and the lust that she has for her co-workers. Tell her to do not even try the mad act because you found out because you looked at her iPad. Looking at her iPad is a misdemeanor but her actions are like a felony, talking and planning a murder of your marriage.

You have to let your wife know that you are not about to become some door mat that will share his wife with another man. Be ready and brave enough to follow through with your threats in case your wife tries to make excuses or soft peddle her dangerous actions or does not make you totally and solely her number one man. A wife that wants another man outside of marriage is not worthy to be married to her husband. Such a woman is a person that puts her lust and selfishness before her husband and child. She can try and spin it anyway she wants but her betrayal will harm her child.

No compromising. Either she makes a permanent 180 turnaround and proves that with actions or you get out of the marriage now before you are in too deep and it will cost you LOT more than right now.


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This is where today's modern man falls.

Your wife is thinking about/wanting to bang other men.

Your wife has you running and jumping through hoops to try and freshen up the marriage and apparently she "approves".

Your wife has a friend actively banging another dude as well as banging this dude with her husband..and your wife approves.

You know your wife wants to bang another man and yet you "coyly" want to tip toe around the subject and ask her politely if she's planning on cheating.

Not to mention she wants to (without even consulting you) to bring another child into the world.

So by your own words, you're merely a provider as well as a sperm donor.

No advice needs to be given because as a man if you can't see and correct what's wrong then that's on you.
YES!

Where are the women on Bob's post? Why do I not see a bunch of likes from the "X" genetic sector here? Why not, Dearies?

Are you sitting in your comfy clothes, your feet in bunny slippers, grinning from ear to ear at the plight of this poor OP?

I am pulling your hair, in jest. Just in case you are dozing off!

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Women hate passive men. Passive men tamp down War.....but ramp up the desire/need in women for the few remaining Bulls in the pasture.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

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I didn’t care about her friend, but I was shocked at my wife’s reaction in basically trying to empathize with and relate to her best friend by saying that she understood her decisions, she had no judgment, and that my wife actually had eye-candy at work and discussed the steps she would need to take to actually cheat on me (but hadn’t done yet). My wife has told this friend that she feels conflicted about the attention she’s receiving from the men at work (which only involves basic flirting and looking cute at work) compared to my efforts to revitalize our marriage. She even told her friend about plans for us to have another kid in a few months right before she started talking about her lust for one or two of her co-workers. I seriously have no idea which direction she will go right now.
Well, do you want a divorce? If so, just talk to a lawyer, see what rules apply in your state, hire a PI and wait for her to cheat. It doesn't sound like this is what you want to do. You have the proof of the conversation and to think it is just "big talk" and hold out hope is blatantly ridiculous. You admit you both were sidetracked, you put in the effort and she is now conflicted. So, you may be one of the lucky guys whose wife hasn't fallen out of love yet, but you want to see what happens.

The Ipad was all the proof you need. I'd have marched right in, made the boundaries known and told her another kid is off the table. Then I'd go buy a pack of condoms and keep them on the nightstand. Trust has been broken and you do not need another child in this mess.
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Back everything up and confront.

Draw your line in the sand, and tell her that the bullsh*t ends or your marriage ends.

The toxic friend needs to go. I'd also expose her affair to her betrayed husband.
This is the only way to handle it.


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I know you will screw this up by your post. Sorry but I've read far too many of these threads and yours is starting from such a point of low self esteem.

A strong man NEVER sits and watches his wife drift away. Many miss the signs but that's not the case here. You know EXACTLY what's going on.

The only answer is head on. Are you a sports fan? How many teams win by ONLY playing defense? How can you score unless you literally "take the ball"?

Unfortunately I see you ruminating while your W destroys the marriage. It is barely salvageable now and not much longer


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Currently married to W of 7 years. Donít fight basically ever, but our high-demand jobs are stressful and things since our 3 year old was born have been taxing. We went from a very sexual, affectionate marriage to one that lacked both. Mostly, I held back because she had issues with sex after childbirth and it wasnít that enjoyable for her. I didnít want her to feel pressured so I dialed back my sexual aggressiveness towards her. Eventually, this led to a pattern of her being more of a roommate than a wife. She works nights, I work days, and when she does sleep at home on her off days, she sleeps in the kids bed.

Eventually, I realized that I needed to share my feelings for her and that was more important than being a nice guy and not ďpressuringĒ her into sex. I have made a lot of efforts to revitalize our marriage and sex life to what it was before our kid came along. She has stated that she approves of these steps, and wants me to keep it going. After working on this for a while though, I had noticed it was not really reciprocated. She showed no real affection back, no increased sexual desire, and no compliments/comments about me similar to what I shower on her. She was absorbing all of my attention/affection but not doing much in return. I chalked this up to her needing time to get back into the groove of things.

However, one day I noticed a message on her iPad from her best friend that indicated that her friend had cheated on her husband. I feel bad, but this prompted me to make the decision to read through her recent conversations with her best friend and discovered that her friend had been going on for months about how bad her sex life was and that she was longing to sleep with someone else and that she convinced her husband to have a three-way with another man in order to sleep with someone else. What her friend confessed to my wife was that her friend had slept with the three-way dude before and after the allowed, consensual three-way with her husband, which was now turning into a straight-up affair without the husbandís knowledge.

I didnít care about her friend, but I was shocked at my wifeís reaction in basically trying to empathize with and relate to her best friend by saying that she understood her decisions, she had no judgment, and that my wife actually had eye-candy at work and discussed the steps she would need to take to actually cheat on me (but hadnít done yet). My wife has told this friend that she feels conflicted about the attention sheís receiving from the men at work (which only involves basic flirting and looking cute at work) compared to my efforts to revitalize our marriage. She even told her friend about plans for us to have another kid in a few months right before she started talking about her lust for one or two of her co-workers. I seriously have no idea which direction she will go right now.

Iím worried that in an attempt to relate with her best friend, sheís getting these thoughts and ideas in her head about cheating that may not otherwise be so front-and-center. I know my wife is her own person, but when all sheís hearing about daily is how her best friend is having this ďexcitingĒ life and having great sex now, I worry sheíll want to go down that road too.

So now Iím coyly trying to get her to spill the beans on her friendís issues in the slightest so I can open the door and start talking about it, but she has kept all of those details secret from me. Iíve kept up my efforts to be a great husband and show affection and improve our sex life as best as I can, but you can only do so much by yourself. Telling her I read her private messages would likely cause as much, if not more, damage than her behaviors have so far.

I guess Iím trying to figure out how to steer her away from temptation and her toxic best friend and back towards her family before she makes a decision she can't turn back from.
Start reading literotica.

It is a free erotic story website. You can find your situation verbatim in several cheating wife stories.

Find the ones without a positive spin on adultery and read them with her.

Good for the goose approach, see how she would feel about you getting some action on the side since she isn't taking care of business. She seems to be entertaining open marriage ideas, it is a two way street. You can get dates too.

Direct approach, get your legal ducks in a row and have divorce papers drawn up. Hand them to her and say the next step is goodbye for us if we don't take our marriage seriously now!

No more toxic friends or denying each other intimacy.
IC for her and MC for you both is non negotiable.

I'm a direct approach guy but if you don't grab your balls and lay the sword to this dragon, it will destroy you and your marriage anyway.

Don't operate from fear of losing her. Operate from confidence in yourself and disdain for marital unfaithfulness and anything less than a 100% effort from her to be honest and transparent.

Your marriage is cooked already because she is lying to you by omission and opening her heart to a toxic friend.

Be bold and strong.
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YES!

Where are the women on Bob's post? Why do I not see a bunch of likes from the "X" genetic sector here? Why not, Dearies?
They are probably looking for a way to frame the OP as a stupid misogynist who didn't listen when he was told.

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Thank you for the advice. Unfortunately I work days and she works nights and we have a 3-year old at home that I can't leave (obviously) to go to her work. One of the steps she mentioned she would need to do to cheat is to go out with the other office guys socially after work for diner breakfasts that they keep inviting her to. I've already told her I'd LOVE to come along to those in order to dampen that. Fortunately right now she prefers sleep to the other guys so far.

Part of me hopes that her comments to her friends are just big-game talking and she has no real intention of doing anything. I was hoping the kid thing would resolve our lives once he gets old enough but her wanting another kid shortly means we'd be resetting the whole process to start all over again.
Here's the biggest problem you face right now: for her to cheat all she has to do is not say "no" when one of these guys puts the moves on her. She doesn't have to wine & dine them and lay on the charm - all she has to do is lie back and enjoy it. Right now, at a minimum, she's getting comfortable pushing her boundaries out just a little.

The only path you can take is put an end to it one eay or another. Talk to a lawyer and understand the process and then talk to your wife. Lay it on the line: if she wants sex with other men then she can pack her $hit and leave right now. If she truly has doubts about your marriage then maybe MC is the answer. But you will not tolerate cheating.
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Thank you for the advice. Unfortunately I work days and she works nights and we have a 3-year old at home that I can't leave (obviously) to go to her work. One of the steps she mentioned she would need to do to cheat is to go out with the other office guys socially after work for diner breakfasts that they keep inviting her to. I've already told her I'd LOVE to come along to those in order to dampen that. Fortunately right now she prefers sleep to the other guys so far.

Part of me hopes that her comments to her friends are just big-game talking and she has no real intention of doing anything. I was hoping the kid thing would resolve our lives once he gets old enough but her wanting another kid shortly means we'd be resetting the whole process to start all over again.
Way to passive. Make no mistake if you continue in this vain you will be cheated on. You are hoping and wishing when direct action is what is needed. Get it in your head that if she cheats you life doesn't end, you divorce and move on to better. Way too many people think that you can't have a good life without love and marriage. When if fact many people don't have good lives precisely because they are in love with a bad person and have a bad marriage. Cheaters take advantage of that. By definition if you live the rest of your life with someone who was willing to cheat on you there is always better. Operate from a position of strength not weakness.
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