Re: Trying to Stop Wife Before She Decides to Cheat.
Only bold action is able to work on waywards. You confront in a weak manner and she will test you by taking action with OM.
I actually think your situation may be further along than you think. I would not be surprised if she's not already cheating with the so called eye candy. She probably is not brave enough to admit it, so she talks about only thinking about it but is already actually doing it.
Too many BHs think that if the texting doesn't reveal an actual affair then it's not happening. We've had so many BHs come here for help with what they thought was only an EA based on the texting or emails. Further digging, it turns out that it was actually a sexual PA.
You need to get a VAR in her car BEFORE you confront. Also you MUST expose her adulteress friend. If you go soft on adultery, I'm telling you, it will bite you. She's going to be looking at your actions not your words.
Also, she needs to change to a day job ASAP. It's destroying your marriage. Don't take no for answer. I really hope you don't give the daycare excuse for this split work schedule. Your family is hanging by a thread.
Also, that "friend" needs to be nixed immediately.