Merry Christmas to you too. Even though I'm no longer struggling, the holidays are a trigger for me since the affair was going strong at that time and her behavior pretty much ruined those holidays. She seems to be into it this year though.
To those of you going through heart break, know that there are many people who are concerned. Don't feel that you are alone. You are surrounded by many who care. Merry Christmas to everyone! Posted via Mobile Device
I too had a very difficult Christmas, first one without WH (I guess stbxh) with the whole family. I missed him terribly but stayed strong for my daughter. For all those out there feeling the pain of betrayal and loss at this time, I send warm hugs and positive thoughts.