Re: Wife is choosing other man
Maybe your wife wanted you to be more aggressive in fighting for her after she confessed the affair. If she was person that did everything with you and that suddenly changed it meant she felt neglected and immaturely looked for it in someone else arms. You sound like you want your wife and that filing for a divorce was just for the sole purpose of "snapping her out of it". If you want your wife go get her. Bang on the other man's door, punch him and tell him to don't come near your wife again. Look her straight in the eye and tell her "get your s**t, we are going home. Homage to every bad boy romance i have ever read.
Get some bail money just in case. She wants back as much as you want her, that is why she keeps coming around. She wants you to aggressively fight for her and your marriage.