Re: Wife is choosing other man
You are probably correct in that this OM is going to be one broke ass hole even if he is telling the truth and divorces his wife. And guess what? When your wife and him have no money to do anything, the resentment and problems in the relationship will come crashing down. And wait until she sees what happens if her little "instant" family of young ones can't stand her and all the havoc that will create.
Guess What. NOT YOUR PROBLEM any more. And you said it correctly. SHE SHOULD BE DEAD TO YOU ONCE SHE LEAVES.
t=There is nothing more to figure out and I do not know why you want to even go down the path of talking about if she wants to come back in six months. Unfortunately, if you keep conversing with her family and mutual friends, you are inadvertently going to be subject to updates on what is going on with her.
You have no kids. Make the break. And you will do better.