Re: Wife is choosing other man
You ARE going to have problems, sir. You're going to have the problem, as stated by betrayed Dad, of having to CHOOSE between all these beautiful women. And they are going to immediately fall madly in love with you and want to marry you. DO NOT let your pain allow you to accept anything other than what you want. WHEN you see red flags, dump them and DO NOT allow yourself to keep going out with them because you are scared to start over with a new one.
Your ex wife will feel like a distant memory in a year. You will have lots of choices.
You will get better. Your wife is with a cheating scumbag. Do you think there's any remote possibility he can compare to you if you're a decent guy? In this case, I do think she'll be back, and I think you would be the biggest idiot in the country to take her back after what she has done.
Your post title sums it up pretty well. Your wife CHOSE another man. By golly she should have to live with that choice, not you.
Once you accept she is gone and WANT to move forward. You'll get to a point you are starting to have good days again really quickly. You'll have fewer and fewer bad ones until you finally get to where you don't give a darn whether she lives or dies. And for you, she should be dead to you either way. What she has done to you is the worst thing she possibly could do.
Live well, my friend.