Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: North Coast Nationalist-burg, U.S.A.
Re: Second Guessing Decision to Divorce
The anger and anguish will never go away. Not for you.
The feelings will only lessen as other memories pile on top of the old.
For these feelings to go away would require you to not value them.....her, any more.
Remember in high school, how you hated some people. Do you still hate them?
Probably not. You put those people in context. They are not worth thinking about anymore.
You relegated those bad thoughts to the trash bin in your mind.
Memories, even bad ones, are there for a reason. In this case? To make you stronger, to teach you something. Not to make you happy. Nope, does not work that way.
Unconditional trust, is a heart attack waiting to happen. Exercise your heart, not your naïveté.
This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.
The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.