Re: red flags everywhere or am I crazy?
You need to ask yourself these questions:
Why would a man with his reputation, continue to contact and meet up with your wife over this length of time, if he was not getting sex?
Why would your wife lie to you about the details?
How many other times do you think they've met up that you don't know about?
Why would you accept her continuing contact with him?
It's possible they didn't have sex, but I'd bet my mortgage they have. Men, particularly players, just don't keep up the contact for that long - for "friendship".
Your wife wouldn't lie to you if she had nothing to hide.
Why you put up with her doing this is unfathomable. At best, she's busting open a marital boundary, disrespecting you in the process; and at worst, she's having a affair right in front of your face - thinking you're too gullible to catch on.
Last edited by badmemory; 03-08-2017 at 04:30 PM.