Re: Living in Limbo
The very first thing that you should know is that an emotional affair with a co-worker is a physical affair.
Same thing goes for an EA with a neighbor, the Fed Ex guy, the milk man, or anyone else to whom the cheating spouse has any sort of regular physical access.
In your specific case, given all that time that's passed, it's likely that your wife has been involved with more than just the one OM.
After all, when a wayward cites a need for "time and space", what they're actually saying is, "I'm not done cheating just yet."
Get out of limbo and file.
Virginia: "Why can't you kids leave well enough alone? Everything was fine until you started digging around."
Burt: "You sound like a Scooby Doo villain."