Re: Oh, for Pete's Sake!
LS has tried, for years, to keep two forums: one dedicated to the BS and one dedicated to the WS. What they did wrong, in my opinion, is allow cross-posting. Because it was not done equally. It is not just negative regarding the infidelity forum over there. The OW/OM forum there is so controversial; as an example, there is one poster there that has defined HIMSELF as such a hypocrite on BOTH forums, yet he is allowed to pontificate all over the place on the OM/OW forum. WTF.
To answer Gus' question, the head moderator there is an ex-(single) OM who was in many, MANY affairs with WWs in his past, and is quite direct, public, and frank in discussing those experiences. I'm not saying anything here that he has not voluntarily made public information, so this should be acceptable to repeat.
Moderation there is the worst. Inconsistent, spontaneously made-up rules, idiocy, emotional reactions versus rules, over many years - but worse during the last couple of years by far. The head moderator needs to go. Emotionally he has a hair-trigger. The owner would do well to fire him, and he would also have a much better internet traffic record because banning EVERYONE who you might possibly disagree with, over the course of many years, has seriously slowed down the internet traffic of that site. If I were the owner (who, by the way, disappeared a few years ago) I would be infuriated at the mismanagement, and I would go in and clean house.
Don't let people become a priority in your life when you're just an option in theirs.
Last edited by Hope Shimmers; 03-12-2017 at 05:56 AM.