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post #61 of 72 (permalink) Old 03-13-2017, 12:16 PM
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Your analogy is poor. We were talking about breaking rules, not making a mistake.

So yes, a valued employee who has been with the company for years might get a writeup if he's caught smoking in the bathroom but a guy who is caught doing the same during his first week might get the ax permanently and I don't see that as being the least bit unfair.
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IIRC, the OP and the WH/MM she is having an affair with knew each other first and then his BW put in a lot of effort to also befriend the OP. If I am correct on the timeline, the affair actually predated the friendship between the women. The OP literally allowed her AP's BW to become her friend while there was already an affair in progress. wrap your head around that, eh?

To be fair to some of the LS readership, I was on LS when she posted and read the first few pages in real time. There WERE people who came down on her, very politely as far as I am concerned, for her behavior. Those posts, for the most part, were removed by mods before the next afternoon.
I agree completely. LS has censored many good threads, posts because moderation deemed them harsh on the cheater.
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I agree completely. LS has censored many good threads, posts because moderation deemed them harsh on the cheater.
Why does it bother you so much? It's not the only relationship forum on the internet.
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This psycho has threads going back to October 2013, and she still hasn't been caught by her husband.
She sounds like a total nut job.

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MM got hurt at work last week, it was an awful day. I'm listed as an emergency contact (please no judgement there, it turned out to be a smart choice since his wife was unable to be reached) he was rushed to hospital I ended up having to pick up their kids
WTF?!? The affair partner is the emergency contact?!? What does she mean she "picked up his kids"?!?

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I had 7 kids here, all young enough that they were not able to see me upset really so I stayed as upbeat as I could and just kept thinking I really needed someone!
Can you even imagine? WOW.... Speechless. This turd is even playing babysitter. SHE needed someone LOL? I WEEP for the 7 kids. WEEP.

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I got banned for a language violation at Loveshack. I called my ex girlfriend who was addicted to crack a prostitute, a crack W***e. That was her words, but they somehow thought that was more derogatory than crack prostitute. This was in a sex forum no less. For me it is ridiculous
LMFAO! Out of morbid curiosity...

At what point, did you know about the crack?

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She sounds like a total nut job.



WTF?!? The affair partner is the emergency contact?!? What does she mean she "picked up his kids"?!?



Can you even imagine? WOW.... Speechless. This turd is even playing babysitter. SHE needed someone LOL? I WEEP for the 7 kids. WEEP.
Have you read her threads? She basically thinks it's all good because she loves her husband and, due to him being away for work often, isn't taking anything away from him by having this affair. By her accounts, when he's home they have a good marriage. When he's away, she leans on the OM as kind of a husband surrogate physically and emotionally. It's mind blowing how she can compartmentalize these relationships and I'm saying that as someone who compartmentalizes very well and was a WW to boot!

According to her, the BW asked she be emergency contact because they are close friends and she can be more easily reached. The WH/MM is out of the hospital now and the OP is driving him to and from his IV antibiotic treatments, last I checked.

Here's the kicker. The OP thinks the BW isn't doing enough for the WH/MM. This woman is working to support her family while her cheating husband is injured and being chauffeured around by his married lover, who the poor BW thinks is a great friend helping out in their time of need.

Follow the evidence where it leads and question everything.
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Why does it bother you so much? It's not the only relationship forum on the internet.
You do not know my history, as I do not know yours. Why does this topic bother you?

There are many forums dealing with infidelity. The topic was LS coddling cheaters, and showing preferential treatment. Both I disagree with, and what LS banned me for. LS pretends to be safe. Well they are safe if you are the cheater.

Fortunately not all forums are like that.
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Have you read her threads? She basically thinks it's all good because she loves her husband and, due to him being away for work often, isn't taking anything away from him by having this affair. By her accounts, when he's home they have a good marriage. When he's away, she leans on the OM as kind of a husband surrogate physically and emotionally. It's mind blowing how she can compartmentalize these relationships and I'm saying that as someone who compartmentalizes very well and was a WW to boot!

According to her, the BW asked she be emergency contact because they are close friends and she can be more easily reached. The WH/MM is out of the hospital now and the OP is driving him to and from his IV antibiotic treatments, last I checked.

Here's the kicker. The OP thinks the BW isn't doing enough for the WH/MM. This woman is working to support her family while her cheating husband is injured and being chauffeured around by his married lover, who the poor BW thinks is a great friend helping out in their time of need.
It's one thing to be an affair partner whose f-ing someone's spouse. It's a whole nother level to be intimately involved in the betrayed spouses family matters. I mean her kids?

Delusional is an under statement. I do believe you on some level she "thinks she's helping them"... A real big help would be not to f the poor woman's husband in the first place.

This women is just a disgusting person. THREE YEARS.... Of smiling in her best friends face then screwing her husband? It's beyond belief either BS could be so clueless. Just wow.

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You do not know my history, as I do not know yours. Why does this topic bother you?
Why do you answer my question with another question?

If you answer my question, as to "why what happens on LS bothers you so much", I will answer your question to me.
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When it is discovered, and it will be, the confrontation will be epic in its proportions. Then she will be back complaining about how mean and vindictive her BH is being to her in the divorce.

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When it is discovered, and it will be, the confrontation will be epic in its proportions. Then she will be back complaining about how mean and vindictive her BH is being to her in the divorce.
Don't forget about how horrid the BW is, too!

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Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to decieve.

The OP and MM are right pieces of work, hope the poor BH and BW find out sooner than later. And there are kids in the mix, terrible!
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