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Newly married wife cheated with 4 guys in 3 days...

I'm 28yo, wife is 32.

Summary
-She slept with her boss nearly 2 and a half years ago.
-I believed we resolved the issue and I stupidly stopped being suspicious and stopped monitoring her because it didn't feel right and so the affair continued for another two years.
-We got married in October, wife quit her job to "end the affair".
-Early this week she began acting stupidly suspiciously in a car ride and would not let me use her phone for GPS after mine had died, so I tapped her phone to send all her SMS automatically to my e-mail.
-Three days later, I acquire 100% evidence that she is sleeping with my uncle (who is more newly married than I), her best friend and my supposed friend, one of my coworkers, and her new boss.

Okay, so... It's hard not to laugh not just at my own stupidity here for marrying this girl, but also with everything that has gone down. So please be nice!

We've been together now seven years but only married for five months. The reason why this is so hard is because our relationship really just has been built solely around friendship more than anything. But I've never once cheated on her or anyone.

I can't even legally be divorced until after a year and the messed up part is that I still care about her but just for her wellbeing. If I leave now, she will do horribly in life.

But over the past few days, I've been talking to another girl (the now exgirlfriend of the coworker that my wife slept with). Lol. It's not what you guys are thinking, I actually recently have decided that I really care for this girl. She seems to feel the same. But she recently had her heart broken as well and I don't want to get further involved until I've fully resolved everything with my now-wife because I don't want to screw this girl over. What's even more messed up is I feel bad just talking to this girl with regards to already being married.

Now, I'm pretty sure I know what everyone is going to suggest. I will never trust this girl again. She will cheat again because I cannot provide for her whatever the hell it is she needs. I just think I care too much. I've even had the thought that maybe we could just be friends, living together married while we both just **** around. But that's not a life that I desire, I know that what would happen is she would just be able to sleep with everyone (and I mean everyone), and I wouldn't sleep with anyone. Although I only have evidence of her sleeping with a total now of five men, four while married and one while engaged, I'm pretty sure there must be others. I am confident she's slept with more people while in a relationship with me, than I've slept with in my 28 years of life. It's actually not even that I'm unattractive, I used to model, I just know I would choose not to put myself out there.

Believe me, there's a lot more I could share, but just looking for some thoughts. Also, should I tell my father? It's basically just my uncle, my father and I in this area (as far as family) and I am expected to be by for a family dinner next Sunday. My father would more than likely murder my uncle, but I feel like he could offer a lot of advice and even a place to crash if I needed.


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A lot of people tend to think this is not real. So I'm including this in the main thread.

And to address the issue of is this real? Could I even make this **** up? Well I am a writer. But here are some of the messages. They paint a pretty clear picture despite outgoing messages not being recorded because she would delete them as they send and phone tapping software requires manual data request.

SMS Type Date/Time Remote Number Text
Received Mar 5, 09:43 AM 41310 "WELL-PAID *** VACANCIES IN ***, VA - http://jobf.ly/r/d56760

Reply STOP to optout."
Received Mar 5, 09:51 AM 540xxx6894 (Sean) Running late
Received Mar 5, 09:59 AM 540xxx6894 (Sean) No bike
Received Mar 5, 11:39 AM 703xxx8571 (Jan 1) (1/2) Hello! I'm thinking about going to pole class on Thursday at 10:30. Not sure if you are working yet, but wanted to see if you want to go? Same place. I
Received Mar 5, 11:39 AM 703xxx8571 (Jan 1) (2/2) 'll let you know Wednesday night for sure if I'm going.
Received Mar 5, 04:38 PM 540xxx6894 (Sean) "Me what was for dinner Her salid Me what was luch
Her i didnt have lunck
Me so momma did cook anything no just salid"
Received Mar 5, 04:45 PM 540xxx6894 (Sean) Del del fel
Received Mar 5, 04:51 PM 540xxx6894 (Sean) He was looking at your phone so be careful
Received Mar 5, 05:00 PM 540xxx6894 (Sean) I did. It has to be resized to send. Should be more careful your husbands a tech guy. // ME: Lol?
Received Mar 6, 09:44 AM 41310 "NOW HIRING NEW *** JOBS - *** jobs & employment: search ***

Reply STOP to optout."
Received Mar 6, 02:04 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) Hey there ­Ÿ˜€
Received Mar 6, 02:04 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) I was waiting to hear from you before texting ­Ÿ˜€
Received Mar 6, 02:06 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lol. It has been hard in the morning. Lisa has been sick since Friday and still in bed with a fever
Received Mar 6, 02:06 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) I'm glad you did
Received Mar 6, 02:13 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) I miss you too
Received Mar 6, 02:16 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) I can't wait for you to come meet Max
Received Mar 6, 02:16 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) And of course other things GS
Received Mar 6, 02:17 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) Not sure where the GS came from lol
Received Mar 6, 02:21 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick)
Received Mar 6, 02:43 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) Absolutely not lol.
Received Mar 6, 02:44 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I think Max would be too young to watch though. I can't wait to get you naked again though
Received Mar 6, 02:47 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lol
Received Mar 6, 02:47 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Average at best
Received Mar 6, 02:47 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) While you on the other hand are extremely sexy
Received Mar 6, 02:50 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Thank you but I really don't see myself that way.
Received Mar 6, 02:54 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lmao
Received Mar 6, 02:56 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Too bad we couldn't sneak away for a weekend
Received Mar 6, 03:00 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lol would you want to?
Received Mar 6, 03:02 PM 540***8004 Uncle (Patrick) I know!
Received Mar 6, 03:04 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I wish we hadn't but definitely worth the wait
Received Mar 6, 03:06 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) And so are you
Received Mar 6, 03:06 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Oh yeah
Received Mar 6, 03:06 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Absolutely
Received Mar 6, 03:09 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Wish I could tape that
Received Mar 6, 03:16 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I do have nice images in my head though
Received Mar 6, 03:18 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) That is pretty sexy
Received Mar 6, 03:19 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Wish I was there to feel it
Received Mar 6, 03:23 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I know. I am so ready too!
Received Mar 6, 03:33 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I know. Hopefully this week. If she starts to feel better and I don't get sick
Received Mar 6, 03:37 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lol
Received Mar 6, 05:53 PM 540***6894 (Sean) O forgot about that did you just go up there
Received Mar 6, 07:00 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Sweet what time
Received Mar 6, 07:09 PM 703***8571 (Jan 1) That's great! I'll check with you Wednesday night.
Received Mar 6, 07:29 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Ill come check you out
Received Mar 6, 07:44 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Got it
Received Mar 6, 08:32 PM 540***6894 (Sean) No there not at all
Received Mar 7, 08:02 AM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Good morning. We're home sick
Received Mar 7, 08:10 AM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Good luck
Received Mar 7, 10:42 AM 540***1981 (ME) Lol nice
Received Mar 7, 11:04 AM 540***1981 (ME) Lol
Received Mar 7, 11:47 AM 540***6894 (Sean) How's your frist day going
Received Mar 7, 11:49 AM 540***6894 (Sean) We have one more job to do. But ill be over after that
Received Mar 7, 11:49 AM 540***6894 (Sean) How late are you working
Received Mar 7, 01:57 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Boo we should be off soonish
Received Mar 7, 01:57 PM 540***1981 (ME) What time u working until
Received Mar 7, 02:11 PM 9692 "myTFB Banking Alerts
BAL @ 3/7/2017 2:11 PM DIRECT FREE INTEREST CHECKING 1: $*.**

Reply HELP for Help"
Received Mar 7, 02:14 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Off heading that way 20 ish minutes
Received Mar 7, 02:29 PM 540***1981 (ME) Sec I'll call back
Received Mar 7, 06:57 PM 540***5324 (Ronnie) Ok lmk in the am
Received Mar 7, 06:58 PM 540***5324 (Ronnie) Word
Received Mar 7, 10:39 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) ****ING JOY! 8:30?
Received Mar 7, 10:55 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Hahah so I heard, now you can serve me
Received Mar 7, 10:55 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) And yes yes, ya do!!
Received Mar 7, 11:25 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Haha of course I am! And oh is that right ...?
Sent Mar 7, 11:26 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) You're 21 right? Lol.
Sent Mar 7, 11:26 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Is what right? And you're not 21. Lol.
Sent Mar 7, 11:27 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) But I don't mind pretending
Received Mar 8, 07:32 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Thank you thank you! You ready?
Received Mar 8, 07:35 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Just in general, for this stupid case and all
Received Mar 8, 07:42 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Always the goal, i understand what you're saying!
Received Mar 8, 07:42 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Let's hope
Received Mar 8, 07:44 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) You better be.
Received Mar 8, 08:39 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Almost there
Received Mar 8, 08:40 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) I do
Received Mar 8, 08:43 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Same place?
Received Mar 8, 08:43 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Alright I'm down here
Received Mar 8, 12:19 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) I know I know I want more room with you though
Received Mar 8, 12:20 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Obviously if that's our only option I'll take it
Received Mar 8, 12:22 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) That's what I'm going for
Received Mar 8, 02:47 PM 540***5324 (Ronnie) U wana come in for a lil today
Received Mar 8, 02:49 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Haha, thank you! I'm glad you're happy with what you felt..
Received Mar 8, 02:53 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) All the better..and you know I will
Received Mar 8, 02:57 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) I might even be better at everything else honestly ...
Received Mar 8, 02:58 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Oh no...forgive me if I'm a little quick, if you're THAT good
Received Mar 8, 03:00 PM 540***5324 (Ronnie) Ok
Received Mar 8, 03:14 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Youre incredible
Received Mar 8, 03:15 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) And uhm...YES
Received Mar 8, 03:15 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) What kind of question is that
Received Mar 8, 03:22 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Yes of course
Received Mar 8, 03:22 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Oh my...so sexy
Received Mar 8, 03:25 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) I like that one A LOT
Received Mar 8, 03:26 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Last , what you're wearing
Received Mar 8, 03:26 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) I sure hope so..
Received Mar 8, 03:27 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) You can definitely have me
Received Mar 8, 03:29 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Do I get more or is that my limit for the daub
Received Mar 8, 03:29 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) *day?
Received Mar 8, 03:31 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) If I can have them..
Received Mar 8, 03:33 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Never, nothing pops up on my home screen so it's okay whenever
Received Mar 8, 03:52 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Okay! Fair enough
Received Mar 8, 03:55 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) No way ..
Received Mar 8, 04:01 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) You know that will literally be on you for ONLY 3 seconds if I see it in person
Received Mar 8, 04:14 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) You won't even get to put them
Received Mar 8, 04:20 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Good. You better
Received Mar 8, 04:42 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Jesus Christ I know...


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Re: Newly married wife cheated with 4 guys in 3 days...

Have you checked with an attorney to see if the marriage can be annulled?

Regarding telling your father, yes and your wife's parents and the spouses of anyone she has slept with. If someone had told you, it would have been a lot better for you years ago. Tell no one you are going to expose, especially your wife.
Here is a good link http://www.marriagebuilders.com/grap...1_exposed.html
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End this with your wife and figure out why you are a member of the"let people screw you over cluB". I'm currently a member myself, and want out of the club.

You have an obvious solution. First step is an attorney.
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Have you checked with an attorney to see if the marriage can be annulled?

Regarding telling your father, yes and your wife's parents and the spouses of anyone she has slept with. If someone had told you, it would have been a lot better for you years ago. Tell no one you are going to expose, especially your wife.
Here is a good link When Should an Affair Be Exposed
Thank you for the article, I think it was just what I needed.

As far as annullment, I think in Virginia I'm out of luck. Though I haven't yet talked to an attorney.


"Determine if you have grounds to have your marriage declared void. Your marriage can be declared void if it is incestuous, if one spouse was a minor at the time of the marriage and married without parental consent, if one spouse was under 16 on the date of the marriage, if one spouse was married to someone else on the date of the marriage, or if the marriage occurred in Virginia and both spouses were the same gender.

Determine if you have grounds to have the marriage declared voidable. A marriage can be declared voidable if one spouse was coerced into the marriage; if one spouse was defrauded -- for example, by a foreign spouse who married to obtain immigration benefits; if one spouse was a convicted felon, impotent or a current or former prostitute on the wedding date without the knowledge of the other spouse; if one spouse was mentally incompetent to consent to marriage on the wedding date; if, without the husband's knowledge, the wife was pregnant with a child not fathered by the husband on the wedding date; and if the husband fathered a child with another woman who was born within 10 months of the wedding date."
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Sounds like she's slapping nasties with the whole town....
The type that throws her legs wide open at and to any man.

You knew this when you married her. Why get all offended because your uncle did her? Sounds like he had to wait in line.

Seriously, it's your wife that's your problem, not your uncle. Yeah, he has no character. But is he worse than your wife? Doubt it.
Get rid of your slouchy wife. It's easy to cut your uncle out. Solve the biggest problem first.

Why would you want to tell your dad? If you want satisfaction from your uncle, man up and go get it yourself. Don't put your dad in this position.

If this story is real, that is.
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Dang your uncle, have you confronted her on any of this?

Have you told the uncle's wife or confronted him?

My butt would be out the door, even if I had to wait a year to divorce, who cares about her well being she sure doesn't care about you. Don't worry she will find another sucker to take your place in a heartbeat.



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Assuming this is real...

I would not worry over her well being or what she does once you kick out. Immediately separate and plan to divorce as soon as you legally can do so.

Once you separate, start considering the other lady as an option.

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Sounds like she's slapping nasties with the whole town....
The type that throws her legs wide open at and to any man.

You knew this when you married her. Why get all offended because your uncle did her? Sounds like he had to wait in line.

Seriously, it's your wife that's your problem, not your uncle. Yeah, he has no character. But is he worse than your wife? Doubt it.
Get rid of your slouchy wife. It's easy to cut your uncle out. Solve the biggest problem first.

Why would you want to tell your dad? If you want satisfaction from your uncle, man up and go get it yourself. Don't put your dad in this position.

If this story is real, that is.
I wasn't initially planning to tell my father so that is why I came here for advice. But I figure if I don't explain what happened, I am the ass divorcing his wife after five months. People should probably know what is going on.

And to address the issue of is this real? Could I even make this **** up? Well I am a writer. But here are some of the messages. They paint a pretty clear picture despite outgoing messages not being recorded because she would delete them as they send and phone tapping software requires manual data requests.

SMS Type Date/Time Remote Number Text
Received Mar 5, 09:43 AM 41310 "WELL-PAID *** VACANCIES IN ***, VA - http://jobf.ly/r/d56760

Reply STOP to optout."
Received Mar 5, 09:51 AM 540xxx6894 (Sean) Running late
Received Mar 5, 09:59 AM 540xxx6894 (Sean) No bike
Received Mar 5, 11:39 AM 703xxx8571 (Jan 1) (1/2) Hello! I'm thinking about going to pole class on Thursday at 10:30. Not sure if you are working yet, but wanted to see if you want to go? Same place. I
Received Mar 5, 11:39 AM 703xxx8571 (Jan 1) (2/2) 'll let you know Wednesday night for sure if I'm going.
Received Mar 5, 04:38 PM 540xxx6894 (Sean) "Me what was for dinner Her salid Me what was luch
Her i didnt have lunck
Me so momma did cook anything no just salid"
Received Mar 5, 04:45 PM 540xxx6894 (Sean) Del del fel
Received Mar 5, 04:51 PM 540xxx6894 (Sean) He was looking at your phone so be careful
Received Mar 5, 05:00 PM 540xxx6894 (Sean) I did. It has to be resized to send. Should be more careful your husbands a tech guy.
Received Mar 6, 09:44 AM 41310 "NOW HIRING NEW *** JOBS - *** jobs & employment: search ***

Reply STOP to optout."
Received Mar 6, 02:04 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) Hey there ­Ÿ˜€
Received Mar 6, 02:04 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) I was waiting to hear from you before texting ­Ÿ˜€
Received Mar 6, 02:06 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lol. It has been hard in the morning. Lisa has been sick since Friday and still in bed with a fever
Received Mar 6, 02:06 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) I'm glad you did
Received Mar 6, 02:13 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) I miss you too
Received Mar 6, 02:16 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) I can't wait for you to come meet Max
Received Mar 6, 02:16 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) And of course other things GS
Received Mar 6, 02:17 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) Not sure where the GS came from lol
Received Mar 6, 02:21 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick)
Received Mar 6, 02:43 PM 540xxx8004 (Uncle Patrick) Absolutely not lol.
Received Mar 6, 02:44 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I think Max would be too young to watch though. I can't wait to get you naked again though
Received Mar 6, 02:47 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lol
Received Mar 6, 02:47 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Average at best
Received Mar 6, 02:47 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) While you on the other hand are extremely sexy
Received Mar 6, 02:50 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Thank you but I really don't see myself that way.
Received Mar 6, 02:54 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lmao
Received Mar 6, 02:56 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Too bad we couldn't sneak away for a weekend
Received Mar 6, 03:00 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lol would you want to?
Received Mar 6, 03:02 PM 540***8004 Uncle (Patrick) I know!
Received Mar 6, 03:04 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I wish we hadn't but definitely worth the wait
Received Mar 6, 03:06 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) And so are you
Received Mar 6, 03:06 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Oh yeah
Received Mar 6, 03:06 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Absolutely
Received Mar 6, 03:09 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Wish I could tape that
Received Mar 6, 03:16 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I do have nice images in my head though
Received Mar 6, 03:18 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) That is pretty sexy
Received Mar 6, 03:19 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Wish I was there to feel it
Received Mar 6, 03:23 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I know. I am so ready too!
Received Mar 6, 03:33 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) I know. Hopefully this week. If she starts to feel better and I don't get sick
Received Mar 6, 03:37 PM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Lol
Received Mar 6, 05:53 PM 540***6894 (Sean) O forgot about that did you just go up there
Received Mar 6, 07:00 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Sweet what time
Received Mar 6, 07:09 PM 703***8571 (Jan 1) That's great! I'll check with you Wednesday night.
Received Mar 6, 07:29 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Ill come check you out
Received Mar 6, 07:44 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Got it
Received Mar 6, 08:32 PM 540***6894 (Sean) No there not at all
Received Mar 7, 08:02 AM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Good morning. We're home sick
Received Mar 7, 08:10 AM 540***8004 (Uncle Patrick) Good luck
Received Mar 7, 10:42 AM 540***1981 (ME) Lol nice
Received Mar 7, 11:04 AM 540***1981 (ME) Lol
Received Mar 7, 11:47 AM 540***6894 (Sean) How's your frist day going
Received Mar 7, 11:49 AM 540***6894 (Sean) We have one more job to do. But ill be over after that
Received Mar 7, 11:49 AM 540***6894 (Sean) How late are you working
Received Mar 7, 01:57 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Boo we should be off soonish
Received Mar 7, 01:57 PM 540***1981 (ME) What time u working until
Received Mar 7, 02:11 PM 9692 "myTFB Banking Alerts
BAL @ 3/7/2017 2:11 PM DIRECT FREE INTEREST CHECKING 1: $*.**

Reply HELP for Help"
Received Mar 7, 02:14 PM 540***6894 (Sean) Off heading that way 20 ish minutes
Received Mar 7, 02:29 PM 540***1981 (ME) Sec I'll call back
Received Mar 7, 06:57 PM 540***5324 (Ronnie) Ok lmk in the am
Received Mar 7, 06:58 PM 540***5324 (Ronnie) Word
Received Mar 7, 10:39 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) ****ING JOY! 8:30?
Received Mar 7, 10:55 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Hahah so I heard, now you can serve me
Received Mar 7, 10:55 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) And yes yes, ya do!!
Received Mar 7, 11:25 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Haha of course I am! And oh is that right ...?
Sent Mar 7, 11:26 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) You're 21 right? Lol.
Sent Mar 7, 11:26 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Is what right? And you're not 21. Lol.
Sent Mar 7, 11:27 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) But I don't mind pretending
Received Mar 8, 07:32 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Thank you thank you! You ready?
Received Mar 8, 07:35 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Just in general, for this stupid case and all
Received Mar 8, 07:42 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Always the goal, i understand what you're saying!
Received Mar 8, 07:42 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Let's hope
Received Mar 8, 07:44 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) You better be.
Received Mar 8, 08:39 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Almost there
Received Mar 8, 08:40 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) I do
Received Mar 8, 08:43 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Same place?
Received Mar 8, 08:43 AM 703***4888 (Nathan) Alright I'm down here
Received Mar 8, 12:19 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) I know I know I want more room with you though
Received Mar 8, 12:20 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Obviously if that's our only option I'll take it
Received Mar 8, 12:22 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) That's what I'm going for
Received Mar 8, 02:47 PM 540***5324 (Ronnie) U wana come in for a lil today
Received Mar 8, 02:49 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Haha, thank you! I'm glad you're happy with what you felt..
Received Mar 8, 02:53 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) All the better..and you know I will
Received Mar 8, 02:57 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) I might even be better at everything else honestly ...
Received Mar 8, 02:58 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Oh no...forgive me if I'm a little quick, if you're THAT good
Received Mar 8, 03:00 PM 540***5324 (Ronnie) Ok
Received Mar 8, 03:14 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Youre incredible
Received Mar 8, 03:15 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) And uhm...YES
Received Mar 8, 03:15 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) What kind of question is that
Received Mar 8, 03:22 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Yes of course
Received Mar 8, 03:22 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Oh my...so sexy
Received Mar 8, 03:25 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) I like that one A LOT
Received Mar 8, 03:26 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Last , what you're wearing
Received Mar 8, 03:26 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) I sure hope so..
Received Mar 8, 03:27 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) You can definitely have me
Received Mar 8, 03:29 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) Do I get more or is that my limit for the daub
Received Mar 8, 03:29 PM 703***4888 (Nathan) *day?
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Re: Newly married wife cheated with 4 guys in 3 days...

Why do you think that you have to wait a year for a divorce? In Virginia, there is no waiting period if there is proof of adultery.


"For divorces based upon either desertion or cruelty, a one year period of physical separation is required to finalize the divorce. There is no waiting period required for adultery; upon proof of adultery, the court can grant an immediate divorce. For divorces based on separation, the spouses must live separate and apart for a period of one year (six months if there are no minor children)."


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Dang your uncle, have you confronted her on any of this?

Have you told the uncle's wife or confronted him?

My butt would be out the door, even if I had to wait a year to divorce, who cares about her well being she sure doesn't care about you. Don't worry she will find another sucker to take your place in a heartbeat.
She ran and told the uncle that I know, but no confrontation yet. Working a lot of doubles this week but off the next few days. There will be words. Lots of words.

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Why do you think that you have to wait a year for a divorce? In Virginia, there is no waiting period if there is proof of adultery.


"For divorces based upon either desertion or cruelty, a one year period of physical separation is required to finalize the divorce. There is no waiting period required for adultery; upon proof of adultery, the court can grant an immediate divorce. For divorces based on separation, the spouses must live separate and apart for a period of one year (six months if there are no minor children)."


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Wow thank you. Just what I needed. It was just how I was informed.
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Yeah this is a pretty clear do-over. This woman is a scam artist. Just call it as life is WAY too short. Tell your uncles wife and ghost. Nothing good will come from a relationship with this woman.

Shame you can't sue this woman for fraud. Maybe you can.

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Sounds like she's slapping nasties with the whole town....
The type that throws her legs wide open at and to any man.

You knew this when you married her. Why get all offended because your uncle did her? Sounds like he had to wait in line.

Seriously, it's your wife that's your problem, not your uncle. Yeah, he has no character. But is he worse than your wife? Doubt it.
Get rid of your slouchy wife. It's easy to cut your uncle out. Solve the biggest problem first.

Why would you want to tell your dad? If you want satisfaction from your uncle, man up and go get it yourself. Don't put your dad in this position.

If this story is real, that is.
The dudes sleeping with his nephews wife and you don't think the reflects on him? Um OK.
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Didn't read past the first couple sentences. Divorce, annul then adopt her if you still feel like taking care of her


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Wow thank you. Just what I needed. It was just how I was informed.
Have you had with your wife since you fount out that she cheated?

Do not have sex with her anymore. Legally, if you know she cheated and continue to have sex, she can argue in court that you forgave her for cheating.

So, no more sex and establish that you are now separated. You can probably live under the same roof for a while and be considered separated. But see a lawyer ASAP, do what they say you need to do to establish that a separation started on day you found out about her adultery. Or at least as soon as possible.

Do you think she would move out if you asked her to?
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