Re: World has been turned upside down in a day.
After reading your last post and after forgetting some of the earlier things said to you, please pardon me if I am being repetitive, but:
WAKE UP!!!! Your wife, that you claim to be seeing for the first time and so hurt about is the same seelf centered abomination that she has always been. You have some serious self esteem problems.
She can be happy with whomever happens to be attracted to her stench. She was not beautiful, she was not nice, she was not caring, she was not "wife" material. Who she is now is who she has always been.
You are not losing a wife, you are losing a problem. You are not getting the crappy end of the stick, you are getting a gift that you were too blind to see all along. That gift is that TROLL of a woman out of your life.
Good people don't become evil like this. Evil people just stop being able to hide their true nature. WAKE UP. Recite it out loud daily as you stand in a power position (think superman-there is science to this believe it or not). 3 minutes a day, chest up, hands on hips, chin up, power pose and recite that you are awesome. Then, after doing that, throw something of hers away or something that is a memory of her. Recite Garbage out of my life. Her thoughts no longer matter. her feelings no longer matter. Her happiness no longer matters. She does not matter. Start it right now.