My sister does represent divorce cases. She has told me not to leave our home. This is all happening so fast, I'm not sure how to handle it. She is saying nothing happened between them. She's lying to me and doesn't even care about how upset I am, who is this person? My sister has told me if we divorce I will most likely have to pay her spousal support because of the income differences. She wants to represent me and has told me she won't take any money from me but I don't want to burden her so I might not.
As for my wife, she is not apologizing or anything. Told me she has not loved me in years. She went off to go teach and I threw all her stuff out of our bedroom. I threw all photos of us around the house in a garbage bag. All she said was we'll talk when she gets home. After all we have been through I can't believe she is letting this guy come between us. Before this she was a loving, supportive, loyal wife.
The fact that you are throwing her out of the bedroom is actually a positive sign for you. Not that she gives a **** but because you are inching your way out of denial and into anger mode.
There is an old saying , which is " believe what they say". Read that again and stop trying to think for her and put your spin on what she is saying.
She just walked out of your house unapologetically and went to see her boyfriend. Do you really think she would after four months of this be telling him she wants to be in his arms if she was not banging him regularly? If this was a long distance affair maybe. So stop trying to guess if they're having sex. That ship has sailed .
It's also time to stop worrying about spousal suppoort or anything else unless you want to sit there and watch her date
Her boyfriend while you sit home and eat your guts out.
Get to an****ing attorney, your sister or anyone you want but get divorce papers in her hand.
Right now she has you staggered and it's not going to change by hoping.
This is a ****ty deal but in a way I know you can't understand now she is making this easy for you. She isn't even trying to hide what she is doing . No more detective work necessary.
Many betrayed husbands spend months trying to find out the truth . You know it.
Now for heavens sake get to an attorney tomorrow and get to a bank and withdraw half the funds and open an account in your own name.
And stop engaging her about MC. She is only stalling for time to figure out with OM how to continue to string you along