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post #16 of 21 (permalink) Old 03-18-2017, 09:47 AM
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Re: I don't trust my husband anymore.

I think you should find a lawyer and have your lawyer get everything possible for you and your child. Your husband don't deserve to be part of
your or his kid's life anymore but make sure he has to pay.

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post #17 of 21 (permalink) Old 03-20-2017, 05:53 PM Thread Starter
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Re: I don't trust my husband anymore.

Thank you everyone for all your advises. We are still together, it seems like he changed. He finds more time for us and he is nicer, although he is not the same science I found out about an affair, but I also look at him differently now, he is not that perfect guy that I married long time ago I feel that he's trying to change things for better. We talked a lot about our marriage and the way I feel and that he has to earn my trust back (i don't know how, but at least we can try). I think that I will give him another chance, there is nothing to lose at this point, but at least, maybe we can safe our family, and our kid can have mommy and daddy together, I think that is important. I'll just have to be more cautious and keep an eye on him. I know, if something like that happens again, it would be the end to our marriage. So, I hope he learned his mistake.
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Can you atleast get into marriage counseling? Nothing is going to change on its own.

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Re: I don't trust my husband anymore.

Yes, we are going to MC, I think that is the reason he change his attitude. well, we'll see where it takes us.
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Re: I don't trust my husband anymore.

Here is a book that can help you both figure out what needs to be done to rebuild trust and your marriage…

How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair: A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful

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I hope MC will help you and you will be able to work things out in a way that means you both restore the marriage
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