Finally have had enough
After 2 1/2 years of absolute chaos I have finally have had enough. Short story husband of 13 years had an affair with a co-worker. He moved out the affair fell apart. He came back and we decided to try to make it work. I thought we were finally getting somewhere after I had a heart attack at the age of 37 from all the stress this has caused. He changed jobs. Roll back to 2 months ago, he started to pull away going out with friends for all hours of the night, gets p!ssed when I ask him where he is going. He told me that he has to disconnect from everyone that he wishes that everything would just go away. I asked him tonight if he would do therapy, he says he hates them, asked him to try to work harder on the marriage, he tells me he doesn't have the heart for it anymore. So I have decided that enough is enough and I'm finally going to go through with the divorce. Thing is, is that I'm alright with this decision, a little scared about finances because he makes 4 times more then me. But My S and I will be alright. Kinda of sad that we have been together for 22 years but I guess we live and learn.
Last edited by MattMatt; 03-19-2017 at 04:20 AM.