Re: Finally have had enough
It looks like you gave it your all for a long time and your health took a toll on you. It's time to let the dead weight go. That is what your husband is, a dead weight and not someone or something that can be salvageable.
Save yourself and your son and let him go. You stayed for too long and thank goodness you are not dead from the stress this whole hell caused. I think we hold on to dead weight for much more than we have to due to fear of the unknown.
Well the unknown is a hell of a lot more healthy for you than staying with this remorseless, selfish man that will only further throw you into the deep dark hole where you may not have been able to get out in one piece.
Accept that the marriage is dead, but you got your son which is a very good thing that came from those years. Learn from the mistakes made and hopefully learn to know when to let them go and not staying too long in a relationship that was not meant to be for that period of time or if ever.
Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.
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