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post #16 of 68 (permalink) Old 03-21-2017, 11:37 AM
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Re: I was too hot to be faithful

I read this on the DM and wondered would it appear on TAM!

It's just another excuse for the justification of adultery.
Lots of people are beautiful but somehow manage not to cheat.

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I see women on a daily basis here in TX that are much prettier than she is/was. Beauty is not an excuse to cheat. Looking at her wedding picture, my wife was much prettier when we married in her 20s than thos woman was. Even now, at mid-40s, she's very pretty. But, her not cheating makes her infinately more ATTRACTIVE than this vain excuse for a woman.

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Julia Stephenson on being too beautiful to be faithful | Daily Mail Online


Or maybe too narcissistic?

Or maybe you're just shallow, selfish, and generally of poor character. But hey, it's not your fault!


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I believe this completely. Especially for women - it takes zero effort for her to cheat. Just don't say no....
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I see women on a daily basis here in TX that are much prettier than she is/was.
Amen, brother.

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post #20 of 68 (permalink) Old 03-21-2017, 06:58 PM
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Her pictures make her look OK, but not exceptional. I wouldn't particularly notice her in a crowd.

I can see that if you are attractive and get propositioned more often, it increases your chances of cheating. More opportunities to do the wrong thing. It doesn't make cheating OK, but someone who is very unattractive may never be in a situation where they need to find out if they would cheat.

On the other hand an attractive person may be used to the idea of dissuading would-be partners, while someone unattractive may be so stunned by the attention that they don't do the right thing.

Of course with my devilish good looks, I'm constantly fending off hoards of beautiful women, so I have lots of practice at rejection.....
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And with this article she now seals the deal that every man she dates from now on (assuming he does the smallest bit of research) knows exactly what she is good for. I'll give you a hint, it's not love.
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Sounds funny but if you actually read the article instead of the headline, you will find that studies show that attractive people have more temptation thrown at them than unattractive people. This is why so many good looking movie stars and other famous people are constantly divorcing and cheating.

Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality.

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I believe this completely. Especially for women - it takes zero effort for her to cheat. Just don't say no....
Could you clarify? What is it that you especially believe for women?

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Sounds funny but if you actually read the article instead of the headline, you will find that studies show that attractive people have more temptation thrown at them then unattractive people. This is why so many good looking movie stars and other famous people are constantly divorcing and cheatin. You cannot imagine what it is like unless you have been there. As they say, those who speak ill of a $200,000 car, have never driven a $200,000 car.
Yes, good looking people usually get a of temptation thrown at them. But that they don't have to act on it. Many don't (probably most).

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One thing that she is not is smart. It takes a special kind of stupid to write something like that and then publish it for all the world to read.
One day her good looks will fade. But she will still have that special kind of stupid. LOL


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I think if a person truly loves their spouse like they should, and has more than one brain cell, they won't be tempted just by a person's looks. I dated a woman that was extremely attractive once. She thought I was very handsome (I'm average at best). She was a good kisser. But absolutely terrible in bed for several reasons.
Why a man can be tempted by even a beautiful woman to actually be with them, I don't get.
When you're with your SO, they and you know what one another likes and dislikes. Sex should be off the charts with your SO.
How could it possibly be as good with a stranger, even if they are more physically attractive and even good at sex?
I just don't understand all this "temptation".
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Could you clarify? What is it that you especially believe for women?
From my perspective, I believe he means if a woman is willing to cheat she has a large inventory of men willing to be her partner. In respect to the subject of this thread, I'm one of the few that's not overly impressed with the so called 9 or 10 mate. Most are too high maintenance for my taste. I've been around long enough to know one "average" girl that thinks I hung the moon is worth 10 hotties that don't.

If you don't embody controversy, what you say will become just another part of the media driven culture of stifling thought and debate about issues.
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if you want to be happy the rest of your life get yourself an ugly wife........
This quote gets thrown around on TAM but it is such BS and quite frankly very insulting to attractive women.
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Sadly I don't think what she says is untrue. It is a lot easier not to stray when nobody tests you, you don't venture far from home - i.e. no away work trips- or you don't have an above average arrogance/confidence.

Pretty sure anyone considered average or less on looks doesn't get hit on/tempted like the above average/movie star lookers do. Not saying it is right just saying its easier to say you wont be tempted when you aren't likely to ever have someone tempt you. And for the record I don't put myself in the above average group so I don't speak from that level
Most of us will be tempted at some point in our marriage.I know many normal average people who have had someone give them too much 'attention' at their workplace or similar, and yet have resisted and not acted on it. Its about moral values and integrity.
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This quote gets thrown around on TAM but it is such BS and quite frankly very insulting to attractive women.
Even more insulting to ugly women.
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