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post #46 of 68 (permalink) Old 03-22-2017, 03:07 PM
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Yawn ... she is nothing more than an attention *****. I definitely don't find her stunning in the least bit. More so, she probably dressed/carried herself in a way to be noticed by men. She is "reasonably attractive", these men realized she was an easy catch, so there ya have it. She thinks it is because she is a stunner, the guys knew it was because she was an easy lay (throw in there a few guys who were unable to separate an easy lay for relationship material) ...

Attractive people (whatever that means) will definitely have a larger "pool" to choose from. Doesn't mean they will actually find the right person for themselves, and doesn't give them an excuse for being unfaithful.

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There should never be "the right point" in a relationship where a person would choose to cheat. Yes, I agree that good looking people often are hit on. That in no way justifies actually cheating.

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I assume you understand I mean right point in that enough things go wrong - whatever they may be- that it weakens you enough to quit your defenses on all fronts. But again my bigger point is if you aren't one of those who are constantly hit on or revered for your looks I don't know if we can honestly say how we would respond in such a situation or how our overall attitude would be for that matter.

Same logic - in my mind- applies to wealthy people different than poor, or someone who has a weight problem versus someone that can eat anything and still be thin, blue collar versus white collar etc. Guess it is the old saying you can't judge until you walk a mile in someone else's shoes. I certainly am not saying this lady isn't arrogant and selfish- she most certainly is that and more.
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I think you missed the whole point.


Nope. Just found your phrasing amusing.


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Nope. Just found your phrasing amusing.


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um, OK. Just a heads up, it wasn't supposed to be amusing but bravo if I made someone smile unintentionally.
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Could you clarify? What is it that you especially believe for women?
That it is much easier for a woman to cheat.
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Translation: Too hot to be faithful = Too immature (clueless) to be in a serious relationship.
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That it is much easier for a woman to cheat.


Believe me I know plenty of single guys and single women - never married and not in a relationship. Both sexes have those who have game and those who do not. I've known guys who could literally charm the pants off of even straight-laced women.

I think the notion that women have it easier can be true but it can be true for guys.

I ran into a friend who recently remarried at about 40 - he said it's CRAZY in the OLD world and he had women (most BS crazy) doing amazing things in amazing places with no interest in anything but sex.

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She's a teenage boy with breasts.
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That it is much easier for a woman to cheat.
Yet men cheat at a higher rate than women do. Not a lot higher, but still higher. Keep in mind that with every women who cheats, there is also a man involved.
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Yet men cheat at a higher rate than women do. Not a lot higher, but still higher. Keep in mind that with every women who cheats, there is also a man involved.
Apparently if you take men and women who work, the numbers are now slightly higher for women. Sad.

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Apparently if you take men and women who work, the numbers are now slightly higher for women. Sad.
I"m not sure what you are saying here. Do you mean that women who work cheat on their husbands more than men who work for a living cheat on their wives?

Where did you find this statistic? Do you have a link?
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I"m not sure what you are saying here. Do you mean that women who work cheat on their husbands more than men who work for a living cheat on their wives?

Where did you find this statistic? Do you have a link?
Yes. I read a study some time ago but cant remember where it was from. Its stands to reason really when you think back 50-60 or so years when not nearly so many women worked, and if they did it was often with other women(the jobs were far more men/women then IE women in typing pools, all nurses were female, etc). Now there is far more mixing of the sexes and most women work full time so there is far more opportunity. So if women have the same opportunities, they are statistically slightly more likely to cheat than men. I think that's sad, but I myself know many women who cheated so I can believe it.
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Yet men cheat at a higher rate than women do. Not a lot higher, but still higher. Keep in mind that with every women who cheats, there is also a man involved.
Well, technically these days, this isn't necessarily accurate anymore lol.
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Very attractive women and men have a huge advantage in desirability that allows them to cuckold partners if they had average or less attractiveness. Now is that any reason to behave immorally, absolutely not, but many very attractive people get a "free ride" through life because of the genetic proclivity's that comes with it, particularly women.
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I find the article to be highly discriminatory against ugly people. Ugly people cheat too! Just as much I'd argue. In fact ugly people often cheat with people that are much more attractive than they are. Cheating is about an individuals desire to do it. If one is willing, its not difficult to find a partner in crime. It has nothing to do with how you look, its about if you are okay with crossing that line or not.

Regarding the author's looks. Since she opened herself up to judgment, I don't think she is bad looking, she is attractive...but....I wouldn't put her in the category of a stunner. What she says about all the attention she received is believable to me. I think guys in the UK favor a different look than American men.
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