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I was too hot to be faithful

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Julia Stephenson on being too beautiful to be faithful | Daily Mail Online


Or maybe too narcissistic?

Or maybe you're just shallow, selfish, and generally of poor character. But hey, it's not your fault!


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IT might be nice on the OUTSIDE, but look at the eyes: Shark like and dead. There ain't nothing remotely attractive about her.
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Julia oh Julia. You have to be a troll.

Or a complete Psycho.

I would have to assume she has a body or two (at least) she has hidden.

One comment was awesome - beauty is only skin deep - wow she is horrifying on the inside

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the moral of this story kids is.....you can still be beautiful and still be a *****
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OMG.

never in my life have a seen a more egotistical narcissist.

Oh, look at me, I'm beautiful therefor I don't need to have morals. Just kneel at my feet and worship me.

THe world would be a better place if a piano fell on her.

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Sadly I don't think what she says is untrue. It is a lot easier not to stray when nobody tests you, you don't venture far from home - i.e. no away work trips- or you don't have an above average arrogance/confidence.

Pretty sure anyone considered average or less on looks doesn't get hit on/tempted like the above average/movie star lookers do. Not saying it is right just saying its easier to say you wont be tempted when you aren't likely to ever have someone tempt you. And for the record I don't put myself in the above average group so I don't speak from that level
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Sadly I don't think what she says is untrue. It is a lot easier not to stray when nobody tests you, you don't venture far from home - i.e. no away work trips- or you don't have an above average arrogance/confidence.



Pretty sure anyone considered average or less on looks doesn't get hit on/tempted like the above average/movie star lookers do. Not saying it is right just saying its easier to say you wont be tempted when you aren't likely to ever have someone tempt you. And for the record I don't put myself in the above average group so I don't speak from that level


Well I can say this - when I was younger I worked with many very attractive women and travelled so we stayed in hotels and it would have been easy... and my W (gf at the time) often talked about this woman touching me or that woman hitting on me... I always laughed it off as her insecurity. But the point is I NEVER ONCE thought about cheating though I obviously could have.

So to me opportunity and temptation are two different things. Temptation ONLY exists in the mind of the tempted. Does that make sense? I mean my opportunities - the women who made themselves available to me - could never become temptations because of my character.

Character is what this woman lacks.


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Well I can say this - when I was younger I worked with many very attractive women and travelled so we stayed in hotels and it would have been easy... and my W (gf at the time) often talked about this woman touching me or that woman hitting on me... I always laughed it off as her insecurity. But the point is I NEVER ONCE thought about cheating though I obviously could have.

So to me opportunity and temptation are two different things. Temptation ONLY exists in the mind of the tempted. Does that make sense? I mean my opportunities - the women who made themselves available to me - could never become temptations because of my character.

Character is what this woman lacks.


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I would commend you on your attitude and would also say this women comes off as very arrogant. There was a reference to a past serial cheating poster on here that knew to seek out women who had been married for awhile in order to greatly increase his chances. An interesting point made - my interpretation anyway- was that women were pretty tough to temptation in the early stages of marriage but once stress, kids, a forgotten birthday/anniversary, or good old fashioned argument and what was once a highly resisted temptation now had a chance.

Multiply that exponentially for an attractive person who is always on the defense and I would say they still have a higher chance of at least a moment of weakness. Or at the very least we have often heard on here treating a spouse as a king/queen can lead to where they feel they always deserve better. Sometimes I think we all need humility to make us want to be better versus constantly being treated as if we are the best and simply deserved even better as a very attractive person would be treated.
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Title should read: Julia Stephenson on being too immature and stupid to be faithful | Daily Mail Online

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It's the sort of Daily Mail article that you don't even bother to read but instead go straight to the comments section.

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This really does not matter, because she is stupid for even saying this.

BUT, I personally do not think she is THAT attractive to justify even saying that.

Just my opinion.
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@bremik I learned in high school that there are 2 kinds of people - those that are internally motivated and those that are externally motivated. It's really that simple to me.

Bill Gates is probably the first geek billionaire. I doubt he cared what anyone else thought. Warren Buffet famously lives modestly. Zillions of non-famous go about living their lives, not worrying about what others think or do.

This section of TAM is full of people who linked up with externally motivated people. Those influenced by others; flattered by others; longing for what others seem to have.

This woman fits that to a tee. She even points out that an expensive car turned her head (as in "weeee look at me I'm in an expensive car!!!").

What does being externally motivated get you? Broke. Serial relationships. Other people who wander.

I just think it's really sad what she has missed in life and doesn't even know she's missed it. To me the joke is on her.


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about as ugly as a person can be.

if there is such a thing a karma she will grow old by herself.
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if you want to be happy the rest of your life get yourself an ugly wife........
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Here is Julia Stephenson


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http://mygeneralblog1.blogspot.co.uk...-cheaters.html (Be afraid UK cheaters! CheaterVille has come to the UK!
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