Re: BS with long time update
Your kids and other family members all know. For me that is still one of my biggest hang ups is nobody knows and it makes it even harder due to the shock value of doing something now. You have that out of the way and doubtful anyone would fault you for leaving now. Don't you think you are still too dependent on something from her? Your still unhappy, everybody knows, you still have opportunity to find someone to be happy with the rest of your life. What keeps you?
I realize the business is a factor, and in my case ours would also shut down with debt, but does that mean you put less value in your happiness than the success of the business? It seems like you still have enough attachment to your wife that it is the real problem. Almost like an addiction, you know "drinking" gets you in trouble and makes you hurt but you just can't quit. I understand your pain and face the same realities after 25yrs of marriage.