Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: The Frozen North
Re: BS with long time update
I don't know how you have done this throughout the years. Fifteen years is a long time to live a lie. If I were you, I would want a modicum of happiness for my later years. The kids are out, and she has lived with no consequences to her actions before and after d-day. I would also want her to have some of the pain and anguish she has put you through for the last 15 years. To that end, I would have the business evaluated, and either she buys you out, you buy her out or you sell outright. Just after the sale, I would hand her divorce papers. Even in your 60's there are a lot of women around who will not betray you. Who will not make excuses to go out and give it up to other men. I believe that your wife has played you for the last 15. Sure she may not be sleeping with other men now, but the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Since you were blindsided by her affairs, and then when she promised not to, she went ahead, and betrayed you again. Does that not tell you what you are worth to her? Right now, all you are is half her business. I would blindside her, like she did to you. I would want her in the gutter wondering what the hell just happened. I would then tell her that it's payback time. Maybe she can find the OM all over again. Likely she will just be a used up old w**re.
Frankly, I can be an angry individual. My anger would have her walking around your hometown with a scarlet A tattooed to her forehead. All alone with nobody. That would be justice.
Last edited by Taxman; 03-24-2017 at 02:10 PM.