Re: My wife is chatting with her ex/NISA
If nothing is going on, she should give you access to all of devices, social media, and email. Then you can use Dr Phone to get undeleted text.
There's a strong possibility that she's "hooked up" with this "friend" when he comes to town. You know a guy will drive a few hours for some sure thing sex with a woman that's working her body to such hot levels.
But I think that it's more likely that she's having an affair with a guy from the gym. Possibly someone that she trains with. I'd bet it would've started as a FWB but she's developed feelings for him, which is why your sexually cut off. Not to mention that she'd be repulsed by your 50 lbs over weight touch vs hot guy from the gym.
I have to reiterate that you need to up your game. I'm talking the complete you. (clothes, hair, hygiene, body, ETC) You said that you find it hard to get motivated to start getting in shape. If you can't do it to fight for your marriage then I don't know what to freaking tell you.
Last edited by jsmart; 03-30-2017 at 07:32 PM.