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Was he the giver or the receiver?
Why would that matter? There are plenty of men who will take a bj from anyone they can get it from.

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Why would that matter? There are plenty of men who will take a bj from anyone they can get it from.
Gay men perhaps but straight guys? I'm thinking no way.

And for a straight guy to go around blowing his boss for a few extra bucks while he's got a loving wife at home? I'm thinking unemployment might be a better option.
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In the last year or so there was a sexual harassment law suit won by some men. They were employees of a deli/restaurant. The men who owned the establishment were gay. The owners would get their straight male employees in situations like lock them in the freezer and demand bj's from them.

The employees, the straight guys, won the sexual harassment suit.
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I guess it happens.
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Men like this piss me off. I have encountered a few like this in my life. Fortunately, they all ended up getting screwed one way or another by their "actions".

I would encourage the waitresses to carry a VAR and sue his ass to oblivion.
This was in the 1960's. There were no VARs. And there were no laws against what this guy did. It was actually pretty common in those days.
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Was he the giver or the receiver?
Or better known as "the poker" or "the choker!"

Frankly, if you were to turn this in to HR, both you and your boss would be fired post haste!

Get a job at another company and only then consult with a personal injury legal counsel for litigatory strategy!

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This was in the 1960's. There were no VARs. And there were no laws against what this guy did. It was actually pretty common in those days.
Oh, I thought this was more recent-sorry!

My mom has told me what it was like for a woman in the 50's - 60's. I'm so glad things have changed (evolved) from that era.
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