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post #61 of 207 (permalink) Old 03-27-2017, 04:34 PM
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Re: I cheated on my wife with my best friends ex-wife

Your actions really show who YOU are. Your wife is a fool with her misdirected anger. I hope she turns on the real one that is responsible really really soon.

I wish someone would invent glasses that can show us how we truly are on the inside. The image the glasses to show of you is freaking scary. Your poor wife and your poor kids. They have your creepy DNA!!!!


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So you really think that every man on the planet who has a ONS, a hook up, should send a formal ****ing apology letter? Get a grip. We ****ed, that's it. That's all it was ever going to be. If she thinks anything else then she's an idiot. Sex does not equal a relationship. She let me do whatever I wanted without hesitation, she wasn't a ****ing innocent victim. She wanted sex, that's what she got. She doesn't get a ****ing apology to go with it. What am I suppose to say "Oh, sorry for lying to you. Just wanted to get in your pants. Sorry you were so gullible. Thanks for the sex. -Alex".
She wanted sex with a SINGLE man. Not a lying d-bag who claimed to be divorced and stated you were no longer that close with her ex.

Grow a pair and tell your wife that you told this poor woman you were now single.
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Tell the wife the whole truth, you said you were divorced until you finished getting what you wanted.

Yes the OW is grown, but she slept with someone whom she thought was single.



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Perhaps this is an experiment for a psychology class at FU.
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Perhaps this is an experiment for a psychology class at FU.
Could be ... OP's doing a great job of portraying a psychopath.
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Just a reminder that this site has a rule against calling any poster a TROLL. Doing so would be bad, so do not do it.
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You're a piece of work. You prey on this obviously vulnerable woman and totally disrespect her. I actually think what you did to her is just as bad as what you did to your wife.

For this woman, who has not had sexual relations since her divorce, to be lulled into having sex with you and then suffer the deep embarrassing pain of having the "sorry, I'm married" bomb dropped on her, must have devastating to her. I'd bet that she probably deeply sobbed for hours, then days later she's assaulted on social media by an angry wife. How F'd up.

What blows my mind is how you seem so non-chalant about the whole thing. The most precious thing a woman has to give us men, is herself and you take it and spit her out like a used Chicklet. This woman did not deserve that.
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Just a reminder that this site has a rule against calling any poster a TROLL. Doing so would be bad, so do not do it.
Understood. However, its not against the rules to conclude, after reading his post and his wife's alleged response to the affair, they both need help from a psychiatrist, is it?

If you don't embody controversy, what you say will become just another part of the media driven culture of stifling thought and debate about issues.

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Remember we can't say "OP is a troll" because that would be against TAM rules. Personally I think OP might be a hobbit but definitely NOT a troll


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You really are something!!! If I said what I wanted to say, damn I would sure get banned!!!

You ****ing lied to her, you ****ing played her, then you never told your friend that you told her you weren't friends with him anymore, then you never told your wife that you told her you weren't married, and now you're all pissed and swearing on here saying she doesn't deserve an apology.

I'm sure she's devastated, after what she's went through in life, and now all you can do is get angry at her because you can't face the ****ty stuff you did.

If you care about your wife at all, you damn well better tell her the truth about what you told the other woman, or she may have an harassment charge against her.

And what happens when she tells your friend that you told her you two were no longer friends?

I am containing myself, but it's damn hard, all I can say man, is you're something else!


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This is a two ugh thread.

Ugh...

Please make reparations as much as you can.

You have really done some evil to two women.

Saving your marriage isn't even the focus at the moment.

How about restoring your humanity.
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This is a two ugh thread.



Ugh...



Please make reparations as much as you can.



You have really done some evil to two women.



Saving your marriage isn't even the focus at the moment.



How about restoring your humanity.


Amen and AMEN!!!


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When people warn that you aren't allowed to call an OP a TROLL, is that really just their way of calling the OP a TROLL without getting banned?

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Right, because someone who can actually get laid is a troll. Sorry that women actually want to sleep with me. Jesus christ!
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Right, because someone who can actually get laid is a troll. Sorry that women actually want to sleep with me. Jesus christ!
Getting laid by misrepresenting yourself is easy; the skills needed are 1. be good at lying and 2. prey on a vulnerable target. #1 and #2 are what psychopaths do everyday and they do not inspire pride or envy. BTW, you actually have to have a functioning conscience to realize this; something you do not seem to have, unfortunately.

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