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post #106 of 164 (permalink) Old 03-27-2017, 09:45 PM
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And then on thusday while she is trying to get her **** together, i'm takinga few days for me. Either in Atlantic City or the Florida Keys
Since she is acting so gross, she might be expecting this. So might not be emotional. Also do not act up (like in the morning) in her presence. Just keep cool and pretend like she is not there

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And then on thusday while she is trying to get her **** together, i'm takinga few days for me. Either in Atlantic City or the Florida Keys


Nice. Avoid the Trop @ AC. I used to get comp like a king there. Was there a few weeks ago and five hours at the tables the waitress came by three times and I was comped $18. This is playing $100 hands. Insane.

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One thing i learned is that in NYS once the summons is filed with the court, financially we are legally seperated
Which "probably" means you are not liable for any debt she accrues after the date of filing and of course she he not responsible for yours.
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And then on thusday while she is trying to get her **** together, i'm takinga few days for me. Either in Atlantic City or the Florida Keys
Don't count on her falling apart. She will probably be happy you pulled the plug. She may even have a party.
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post #110 of 164 (permalink) Old 03-28-2017, 12:23 PM Thread Starter
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She's been served

stbxw showed up at my office a couple hours ago, sat in her car out front and called and called and called. I of course did not answer...she texted

stbxw: can we talk?
me: About?
stbxw: are u kidding me?
me: no
stbxw: nevermind
me: ok

I feel awesome, liberated.

and Exposure this morning that they both will feel
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post #111 of 164 (permalink) Old 03-28-2017, 12:29 PM
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Is it even possible to have divorce papers drawn up so quickly? First I've ever heard of it.
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I don't know about within a day but I had mine completed and served within three days after Christmas. So its not impossible. I didn't even find a attorney until the day after Christmas. I know most attorneys would have been out with family for the holiday but I think in my case I was just lucky. I didn't find the best attorney and in the end it turned out she was friends with my xW's mom and it caused some issues.

If he did pay a 10k retainer nothing would surprise me.

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I hired the lawyer a couple weeks ago in the event this would happen. the divorce is boiler plate no fault. 2 signatures and done. Lawyers filed with the court at 9 am, he asked me when i wanted her served, i gave him a window of time and he made it happen.
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I hired the lawyer a couple weeks ago in the event this would happen. the divorce is boiler plate no fault. 2 signatures and done. Lawyers filed with the court at 9 am, he asked me when i wanted her served, i gave him a window of time and he made it happen.
Glad you paid up and kept him for this alone, your bucks were well spent.

Now go enjoy your new life!

Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.
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She's been served

stbxw showed up at my office a couple hours ago, sat in her car out front and called and called and called. I of course did not answer...she texted

stbxw: can we talk?
me: About?
stbxw: are u kidding me?
me: no
stbxw: nevermind
me: ok

I feel awesome, liberated.

and Exposure this morning that they both will feel
Who did you expose to?

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She's been served

stbxw showed up at my office a couple hours ago, sat in her car out front and called and called and called. I of course did not answer...she texted

stbxw: can we talk?
me: About?
stbxw: are u kidding me?
me: no
stbxw: nevermind
me: ok

I feel awesome, liberated.

and Exposure this morning that they both will feel

It just got real for your stbwx.

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She's been served

stbxw showed up at my office a couple hours ago, sat in her car out front and called and called and called. I of course did not answer...she texted

stbxw: can we talk?
me: About?
stbxw: are u kidding me?
me: no
stbxw: nevermind
me: ok

I feel awesome, liberated.

and Exposure this morning that they both will feel


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"If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life."

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I have been holding off thinking mediation is the way to go but last night with her spending the night at his house without showing a bit of compassion for how that makes me feel is astounding to me. She came home at 7:30 this morning and said good morning with a smile
What a vile POS this women is..... I'm just speechless and angry for you. My ex was cruel like this too. They GET OFF on it.

Strolling in from her walk of shame, couldn't be happier that she actively slooting around right in front of her husband's face.

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She's been served

stbxw showed up at my office a couple hours ago, sat in her car out front and called and called and called. I of course did not answer...she texted

stbxw: can we talk?
me: About?
stbxw: are u kidding me?
She just flaunted her affair essentially in your face and she's upset you are divorcing her?!?

What the hell is there to talk about?!? You are FAR more restrained than I would be in your situation friend.



DO NOT EVER TAKE THIS WOMAN BACK. I'M WITH YOU, NO AMOUNT OF MONEY IS TOO MUCH TO GET THE HELL AWAY.

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Is it even possible to have divorce papers drawn up so quickly? First I've ever heard of it.
I filled out my divorce papers (ALL of them, not just the petition) in two hours.

Had her sign them, drove to the court house and paid the $250 filing fee.

No lawyer. I was divorced in less than 30 days. Best money I ever spent.

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