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post #121 of 163 (permalink) Old 03-28-2017, 04:15 PM
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We are waiting with bated breath. Did you expose her and the AP?
One hopes that once they are outed, he dumps her well used tuches. Then she can find out what being alone and the author of your own demise means.

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And then on thusday while she is trying to get her **** together, i'm takinga few days for me. Either in Atlantic City or the Florida Keys
Hmmm, I'd do the keys. Get a tan while you're at it.
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Count Mack I am very sorry you are dealing with this. I am going through the same thing myself, cheating wife with no remorse. You are doing great so far, it will be better one day.

Something I have noticed and wanted to know if others noticed this too. I have been on surviving infidelity reading the healing library and stories on here. Is it just me or are the wayward wives especially cruel? Some of the stories I have read are just horrible. Is this anything due to with science or hormones? I can't be the only one that noticed this. They seem to get off on rubbing the affair in the face of their husbands.Obviously men cheat too, I think even more. But I the cheating wives stories are just harder for me to read. I just know I'll never get married again due to this. But I will be okay one day and so will you. You've been served a **** sandwich that you weren't expecting or deserved. Get this vile woman out of your life and go for as much custody as you can get.
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Hmmm, I'd do the keys. Get a tan while you're at it.
Get your ass to Captain Tony's at Key West!

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Changed my plans. Plane leaves fo vegas at 3:10 my time . 4 days at the Venetian
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How'd the exposure go?
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Changed my plans. Plane leaves fo vegas at 3:10 my time . 4 days at the Venetian
Get a tan anyway! Turn your phone off the whole time you're there and dont tell her where you're going.
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Changed my plans. Plane leaves fo vegas at 3:10 my time . 4 days at the Venetian
This marriage is over.... bang some hookers while your there and text the pics to your stbxw.

Cause **** her that's why.....

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OP keep us posted on what how are you doing.? Also keep us up-to-date on any developments or contact with your STBXW (nightmare from hell)

I can't believe she had the balls to show up to your work.! I guess wanting to discuss why you filed for divorce, I am not kidding I wish you would've talk to her but I'm glad you didn't. I would've loved to hear her Insanity she would've tried explain what made her do such a horrible thing to you... I don't know but it would've been somewhat entertaining to hear the crazy BS coming from her. But you did the right thing no doubt about it. Good job on how you're handling this so far, keep us posted

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One gets the impression that you blindsided her with the divorce. Use every means at your disposal to wreck her world. I am in agreement with Ddude et al, she seems particularly cruel, therefore, the gloves are off. As usual I have stories, one client who I have mentioned before is in your situation, and on filing, of course his STBX called and was confused as to why he wanted a divorce? He replied, I really do not want to be divorced...I want to be widowed.

This gentleman is fairly well heeled. He let slip, confidentially, that he arranged for some people to visit the AP as well, afterward, the AP called the STBX and told her that the sex was nice, but he likes his balls where they are at present. He picked up and left. The STBX gave him everything he wanted in the divorce. She realized that she was dead to him. Even visitation and child issues are handled through his secretary. He has not spoken or communicated with her in years. His staff picks up his son and delivers him back after.

PS, Count Mack: A few days at the Venetian? Have a fantastic time. Enjoy as much female company as you want. Your ex will likely become a minor consideration in your life. I am not a fan of the tables at the Venetian, I prefer the older places. I have never failed to do some damage at the Flamingo (Accountant, therefore BLACKJACK is my game)


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, one client who I have mentioned before is in your situation

This gentleman is fairly well heeled. He let slip, confidentially, that he arranged for some people to visit the AP as well, afterward, the AP called the STBX and told her that the sex was nice, but he likes his balls where they are at present. He picked up and left. The STBX gave him everything he wanted in the divorce. She realized that she was dead to him. Even visitation and child issues are handled through his secretary. He has not spoken or communicated with her in years. His staff picks up his son and delivers him back after.
Don't like the part where he had some people go over and rough up the affair partner. He acts like she's dead to him and he's moved on with his life yet he goes to the trouble to interfere with the affair partner. That's rather petty if you ask me, especially given how he handled the rest of it.
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Don't like the part where he had some people go over and rough up the affair partner. He acts like she's dead to him and he's moved on with his life yet he goes to the trouble to interfere with the affair partner. That's rather petty if you ask me, especially given how he handled the rest of it.
I have known this fellow for a number of years, and he was never an angry person. In business, however, it was well known not to cross him, as he would make it his personal vendetta to ruin whoever was in his cross-hairs. He basically lived the phrase, I don't get mad, I get even. Petty? Given his personality, it probably did not matter, as long as he got even.

I warned him that unlike a lawyer, I can be compelled to testify against him. Knowing him, this was not unexpected. His wife, OTOH, knew this about him, and possibly could have warned her AP off. She rolled the dice and he lost, in fact everyone lost.
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She's been served

stbxw showed up at my office a couple hours ago, sat in her car out front and called and called and called. I of course did not answer...she texted

stbxw: can we talk?
me: About?
stbxw: are u kidding me?
me: no
stbxw: nevermind
me: ok

I feel awesome, liberated.

and Exposure this morning that they both will feel
What did she expect you to do????
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That's rather petty if you ask me, especially given how he handled the rest of it.
It's pretty hard to have a "it's business nothing personal" attitude when another person is boning your spouse.

Despite how APs may feel, if you piss in another person's pool, you should expect to reap what you sow.

It's pretty hypocritical to believe otherwise. Petty? Maybe but you're comparing a bruise to a gunshot wound.

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It's pretty hard to have a "it's business nothing personal" attitude when another person is boning your spouse.

Despite how APs may feel, if you piss in another person's pool, you should expect to reap what you sow.

It's pretty hypocritical to believe otherwise. Petty? Maybe but you're comparing a bruise to a gunshot wound.
When I was single I'd meet most of my potential girlfriends on the dating websites. Many of them were "married but separated and divorcing".

So I was in effect "an affair partner". Who knows maybe the poor guy was home thinking nothing was wrong, and here I am thinking she's ripe for the picking because her marriage is as good as over other than the slow legal process.

Does that mean I should get beat up or threatened?

I don't think so.
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