Join Date: Nov 2013
Location: Warm in the summer, cold in the winter
Re: lingering questions in my mind
Still not remorseful is how I describe your wife. In fact I would hesitate after six months to even offer the gift of remorse. However there is something you can ask her, this should end the blame shifting to you. Ask her if marriage is fifty fifty, half your faults and half hers. Then ask, if you bought a house would you expect me to discuss this with you first? If I decided this on my own without consulting you how would you feel? So in other words wife, important decisions about our marriage should be discussed, correct? Then why did you not consult me when you decided to allow another mans penis to invade your vagina? Tell me specifically how I am responsible for you to spread your legs open, allow another mans penis to enter, when you said absolutely zero to me.
In fact wife, you blaming me has caused me to feel that I need an emotional and PHYSICAL relationship with someone else since you were not available to me. I will be looking for this relationship as you have hurt me beyond any shadow of a doubt over your selfish decision. If I hear one word of you blaming me for ****ing another man, I will divorce and expose to everyone. You did not consult me to **** another man, and I too was involved in the same marriage as you, but I did not run into the arms of another woman.
After you have said this just walk away, do the 180. Your wife is very proud of her manipulating skills, and it's a good action on your part not to comfort her.
What you are feeling is completely normal. It's difficult to feel for the one that betrayed you in the worst way.
Don't believe everything you hear, and only half of what you see.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that's why they call it the present.