...i mentioned to her going through a lie-detector test, but she insists on just moving on and try to start over rebuilding.
Golly, what a surprise. A LIAR
doesn't want to be subjected to a polygraph. How unusual.
She pleads that she's remorseful and she's dealing with it herself - the remorse, shame, guilt, etc.
Yeah, she's got tons
I need to point out some ugly truths to you (since you're not getting any truth from this liar). This guy was probably not her first
rodeo. That's another reason she doesn't want to be hooked up to a poly because often times, a betrayed spouse will have the examiner ask if the cheater has been with anyone ELSE besides the one you know about. In her case, I'd be willing to bet my right arm she has
and she ain't about to let YOU find out about it. Let's face it - she's a remorseless LIAR who would have taken this secret with her to the GRAVE, lying to your face every single day for the rest of her life had you not uncovered the truth
. So she's a MASTER liar who has no problem deceiving you. If she was able to cover this
affair up so easily, how many more
is she still hiding? I wouldn't believe a thing out of her mouth..
Secondly, I find it amazing that she's suddenly
filled with all this 'guilt, remorse and shame' only after
she was caught. All during her affair and the two years the liar managed to successfully HIDE this from you - where was all this 'guilt, remorse and shame' then? She sure didn't have it before or she would have confessed to you what she'd done. That's what TRUE remorse is - it drives you to be honest enough to take your lumps because the emotional health of your betrayed spouse TRUMPS your own selfish desire to save your own hide.
I don't recall you mentioning her doing this at all, coming to you and confessing - even though she claims to be OH SO remorseful. What a liar.
Add on the fact that she was NEVER going to tell you at all
, and that completely belies her utter bull**** claim of having all this shame, remorse and guilt. What a crock of steaming manure that
is. If she were capable
of feeling guilt, remorse or shame, she wouldn't have been able to so successfully DECEIVE you for years without so much as batting an eye.
If you choose to reconcile with this liar, be prepared to deal with more cheating
in the future. Take that to the bank. Remorseless cheaters just cheat again and again. She has absolutely ZERO regard for your feelings and is ALL about covering her own pitiful hide.