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Re: How does the sand taste bremik? I told you so.....

Thanks for the motivational input!

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Thanks for the motivational input!
After all these years it's not motivational input you need buddy,it's a kick where the sun don't shine.
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To what end do you desire to be motivated? Many here are using harsh, untempered responses in an attempt to try and allow you to see that there is little to no hope in your situation. If you are satisfied with things the way they are then what you want is a merely a place to vent. If that is the case simply state that you are venting and we will not offer opinion or advice.

Unless specified otherwise, we assume that the person posting desires advice and opinion from an outside, unbiased perspective which may help them to see what their course should be. We have done so but you act as if we are somehow demotivating you. If it is your desire to remain with this woman, regardless her treatment of you, then so be it. I wish you well.

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Op lives in a world where people do whatever they want and get a second, third, fifth, tenth chance without a thought. He expects the folks here to buy it when he says things will change. Again. Good luck.


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To what end do you desire to be motivated? Many here are using harsh, untempered responses in an attempt to try and allow you to see that there is little to no hope in your situation. If you are satisfied with things the way they are then what you want is a merely a place to vent. If that is the case simply state that you are venting and we will not offer opinion or advice.

Unless specified otherwise, we assume that the person posting desires advice and opinion from an outside, unbiased perspective which may help them to see what their course should be. We have done so but you act as if we are somehow demotivating you. If it is your desire to remain with this woman, regardless her treatment of you, then so be it. I wish you well.
I was actually being serious with that comment. My post opened it up for the comments I have received thus far. My title pretty well begs for such comments. Not even I can come up with excuses for her anymore and hope I can maintain my current attitude and do what needs done.

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I was actually being serious with that comment. My post opened it up for the comments I have received thus far. Not even I can come up with excuses for her anymore and hope I can maintain my current attitude and do what needs done.
You know bremik if you take a piece of **** and put it on a slice of bread and then put some ham chicken,lettuce,tomato,spring onions,beetroot,mayo,coleslaw,peppers,and anything else you can think of and then put another slice of bread on top you can call it anything you want but it's still a **** sandwich.
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You know bremik if you take a piece of **** and put it on a slice of bread and then put some ham chicken,lettuce,tomato,spring onions,beetroot,mayo,coleslaw,peppers,and anything else you can think of and then put another slice of bread on top you can call it anything you want but it's still a **** sandwich.
That appears to be very true in my case
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ok so what know you know. take some action.
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ok so what know you know. take some action.
Trying to figure out what to do given our financial situation
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Trying to figure out what to do given our financial situation
just start the ball rolling get a free lawyer consult. then go from there.

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Or just research the divorce laws in your area.

Most have formulas to calculate child and spousal support so you can get an idea of how much you'll be paying for how long.
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[QUOTE=stixx;17639273]Or just research the divorce laws in your area.

Most have formulas to calculate child and spousal support so you can get an idea of how much you'll be paying for how long.[/QUOTE

A divorce would very likely drive me out of business if not bankrupt so there are a lot of ripples going to come out of this
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OP,
Are your children of sufficient age to help with the farm? It would do them a world of good to see and experience hard work in their youth. It teaches many lessons and builds character. They are not learning any of the sort from your wife's behavior in fact, she is most probably a very large negative influence on them. It may be prudent, and about time, to leave her to her sex talking, partying, conflict avoiding MARRIED male friends. Your is the life of an adult, hers a child, the two do not mix well in man and wife relationships.

I do honestly believe that a person of your character, compassion and understanding can do much, much better.

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A divorce would very likely drive me out of business if not bankrupt so there are a lot of ripples going to come out of this
Lots of guys think that but that could just be your fear and emotions running your mind rather than logic and common sense.

Remember she only gets half of everything, and yeah you'll be paying through the nose in child and spousal support if the marriage was long term and you make a lot more than her and you've got young kids, but it's not forever.

Before you decide you will be financially ruined, do some research and like the other poster said, seek a few attorney consults, and determine if those fears are valid. Odds are you're looking at a worse than worst case scenario. I was in your position once. Thought my divorce would completely bury me financially but it was so bad that I just said "screw it I'm doing this let the chips fall where they may". It's all behind me now and I'm just fine.
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Re: How does the sand taste bremik? I told you so.....

If you're serious this time keep your mouth shut, eyes and ears open. See a good divorce attorney but keep it a secret like she is J.
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