Re: How does the sand taste bremik? I told you so.....
Are your children of sufficient age to help with the farm? It would do them a world of good to see and experience hard work in their youth. It teaches many lessons and builds character. They are not learning any of the sort from your wife's behavior in fact, she is most probably a very large negative influence on them. It may be prudent, and about time, to leave her to her sex talking, partying, conflict avoiding MARRIED male friends. Your is the life of an adult, hers a child, the two do not mix well in man and wife relationships.
I do honestly believe that a person of your character, compassion and understanding can do much, much better.
Peace and long life