Re: How does the sand taste bremik? I told you so.....
Bremik, I have been following your threads since day one. I felt I needed to pipe in with my tuppence:
This is NOT a marriage - not by any stretch of anyone's imagination. She continues to freewheel doing whatever she wants and then sweet talks you and turns on the sex to keep you on hook. She will lie, deceive - pretty much do anything she has to. And she probably knows that you are dependent on her financially.
Make no mistake that she has had and is probably still having sex with others especially the scumb@gs you have mentioned (Jay, Dave, Mike … and God knows who else). And the killer is … she doesn't care what it does to you (deep down you know she does this and deep down she knows you know). She knows you will do nothing about it.
So the question is how long you are willing to tolerate this despicable, disrespectful behaviour. And at what cost to you and your well being? SELL THE DAMN FARM, get a regular job and move into a smaller house and get on with your life. Cut this cancer completely out of your life. You love your "illusion" (your vision of what you think she is - not what she really is). If you had a good look at what she really is you would be terrified. Stop this now. Lawyer up and get the D underway. Lay down your demands one final time and proceed with the split. Then watch her R actions - not words and not her trying to have sex with you.
Wake up, dump the farm and get on with your life!
This is my quest, to follow that star
No matter how hopeless, no matter how far
To fight for the right, without question or pause
To be willing to march into Hell, for a Heavenly cause