Re: How does the sand taste bremik? I told you so.....
I do not come from a "jump ship" mentality... and if I am with a spouse it is because I want to be there, mostly healthy and enriched in a life together, but there must be truth in the big things although it is up to the couple to determine what boundaries constitute big and little and each is different.
Fidelity is a big thing.
I think that I would tire quickly in a game of circular logic, often the conversations we fear most are the one that are the most critical to have... and free us from our immediate worry. True, another may take it's place, but at least that worry is addressed.
What would you lose by being totally forthcoming, letting her know everything you know?
It would be at this point one could set the ultimate boundary, a very clear and marital deal-breaker if necessary.
If she wants these communications, she want's them more than she wants you.
Many may choose to live like that... what do you choose?
Last edited by Emerging Buddhist; 04-03-2017 at 09:21 AM.
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