Or just research the divorce laws in your area.
Most have formulas to calculate child and spousal support so you can get an idea of how much you'll be paying for how long.[/QUOTE
A divorce would very likely drive me out of business if not bankrupt so there are a lot of ripples going to come out of this
Out of business you say?
This business you are in:
Is you selling
your Pride, Dignity......your Soul, to an unrepentant, cheating, selfish wife. She has no soul. She is sucking the blood out of yours. She stands in your light. Without you she would shrivel, go dark and.....become colder. It is your heat that she purloins. Your heat and POSOM's causes her loins to purr. Her sexual worth cannot stand firm without men. She is amoral, amorphous. A blob, a shadow of a women, no man can own her oyster. It is a slippery concept, she has lost control of it.
your goods for her bad(s). When good and bad meet, the more powerful force triumphs. In your marriage she is a Triumph Rocket launcher.
her needs, at the expense of yours.
Is that your occupation
keeps your mental stock in the "sold out" category . You can never restock your psychological inventory.....so fast she spends your trust and
Is having you buying
time, rather selling
her off to the lowest bidder [in her case]. She has no intrinsic worth. Her worth resides [only] in her outward shell, her appearance. Any new, hopeful, trusting man that she lays with will "assume" that he is getting an exclusive oyster. Problem is: She is open for business
with your competitors. She opens her [furry good] for others to test drive. She then lies about it. And you willingly pay for her bad faith negotiations
Is her breaking your marital business contract.
And breaking your rapidly beating heart.
Is you enabling her to cheat on her contract
. Is you being a fool while she does the bait and switch
with your good will marital valuation
Is enabling her paramour to steal your trademark. The trademark that you own.
Is when you married her, you two formed a Partnership
. She has violated the terms
of that contract. She has been skimming the profits
of the partnerships love from you and giving it the your competitor POSOM.
Your business model
has failed. It has gone belly up. Your wife's hungry belly has left your business premises. The soft thing has transferred it [assets
to POSOM's corner lot. He has its lush trappings displayed
for all to view and all to pine over.