Re: How does the sand taste bremik? I told you so.....
If she is not an eminent threat to you or your kids, then why don't you separate amicably and still run a business?
There is NO WAY this relationship is made out of love and is kept due to love. Well, make it a marriage of convenience then. She will and has not stopped cheating. You want out but can't due to finances. Why is this that I mentioned above not a doable route?
Notice I didn't mention divorce and you don't have to be divorced to both get from "this type of marriage" what you both need at this time. It's not perfect, but neither has the situation you have been in for quite some time either. Things don't have to be black and white. They grey area works best the majority of the time.
Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.