Re: He'll never get it
I think some people are dense and self absorb. If it's not important to them then it's of no consequence even if they are in a committed relationship. Just like some people are able to tell you the date of their first kiss, date, or anniversary and others these dates aren't important enough to remember. I think your husband wants to forget about the affair so he doesn't want to give it much thought but he isn't sensitive to how those dates will always be permanently stamped on your heart of heart. You need to convey to him how this changed you and him wanting to forget about it doesn't change the fact that it's an ugly reminder that was caused by his actions only and he needs to be sensitive that this anniversary is a trigger for you and will be for the rest of your life and part of him honoring you is to acknowledging that he's responsible.
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