Re: Other forums....
Oh yes I do think they are Very enabling on some posts. Honestly they are terribly inconsistent on their actions towards WS's. Sometimes they are totally enabling, and others they come down hard. I think their enabling is just a tactic to make a WS stick around. Maybe to get the message into them through subliminal methods. i have seen a variety of tactics there over the two years.
To keep them around I understand, but in the end I dont think they are helping. I think its better to burn the WS, keep them dysfunctional to the point that they burn the bridge of their marriage themself. I have seen many WS over at SI that TRY through the SI methods for years and they still drive their spouse away. Almost better to stay dysfunctional till the marriage is over. So the BS is not waiting HOPING that they get it.
But people will keep on hoping. :/