People here talk about marriage. Some of them are like me, not real nice. Some of them are blunt. Some of them are hopeful but the point of this site is to discuss or talk not shape the dialogue.
However, that I find it presumptuous and annoying when people who have never been married
give marriage advice on TAM (and probably on other sites as well) to married people going through life/marriage changing events, sometimes even to the point of dominating a thread, as if they are the expert on marriage, infidelity, etc. I'm not talking about you, sokillme. You are married and understand the complexities of married life.
(of a person or their behavior) failing to observe the limits of what is permitted or appropriate.
"I hope I won't be considered presumptuous if I offer some advice"
synonyms: brazen, overconfident, arrogant, bold, audacious, forward, familiar, impertinent, insolent, impudent, cocky;