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post #16 of 24 (permalink) Old 04-07-2017, 10:59 AM
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Really? But what if Frank asks doubleg to do a Julia on him to get that promotion?


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Actually, when I talked to Julia about this, she said she initiated the, um, "relationship." So I don't know if sexual harassment rules apply here.
Yes, sexual harassment still applies. As her boss, he can still use his authority to harm her if she tries to stop the relationship. Any sexual relationship between a boss and a subordinate is considered sexual harassment.
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Its very dangerous ground, but I don't think any relationship is harassment, if there is no implied threat / reward. Most companies have policies that employees need to not have relationships with direct reports and will move people if a relationship develops


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Yes, sexual harassment still applies. As her boss, he can still use his authority to harm her if she tries to stop the relationship. Any sexual relationship between a boss and a subordinate is considered sexual harassment.
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Really? But what if Frank asks doubleg to do a Julia on him to get that promotion?
She walks in with her phone recording and she wins either way. If he says "No" then off to HR, if he says "Yes" then she has a new job with more money and no Frank for a boss and if he says "Yes, as long as you ....." then she takes the recording to HR and might end up with Franks job 'cos he won't be in it for long.
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I work for a subsidiary of a large company. The CEO of the parent company got caught having sex with an employee who was also the wife of another employee. This guy has no conscience. Not only did he not resign, the board didn't remove him. He divorced his wife and immediately married the other guy's wife.

What pisses me off is this ***** cheated on her husband, got divorced and is now a millionaire. She can literally do anything she wants now. This is why I don't believe in karma. A lot of people in our company think he will try to run for Governor one day. Hopefully this prevents it from happening.
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What a *********. The fact is that this stuff goes on all the time. When I worked in call centres as a student you wouldn't believe......The truth is people get off on the power. It's just a big game. The problem is that you are trapped in a secret now and you don't want to be. I actually agree with the poster who suggest you use it to get advancement. You could grass him up, however you might not be trusted. It's a difficult one. If you are good friends with his wife you should tell only her.
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If you decide to report it to HR, or anywhere else, I hope you've got more proof than simply your word against theirs. If you don't, its likely a career ending event. Do it at your own peril.



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I have caught every boss I had, cheating. I kept my mouth shut even though I knew both spouses of the cheaters. I called it job security.
Or you could always snap some provocative cellphone pics and then anonymously forward them on to the company HR Department!

CEO's just love dealing with people like that in their chain of command!

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