Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: The Frozen North
Re: My personal success story (so far)
I am sorry sir, but in my experience and that of many others, if they met up, there is a great likelihood that intercourse took place. In order for you to feel safe again, you will need to explain to your wife the following: Because this has trickled out, it is unfortunate, but your credibility is suspect in these circumstances, remember; you have already asked for a separation, and we were on the verge. On the basis of what I have just said, I will want you to take a polygraph test. The results of that test will determine the state of our reconciliation.
She has trickle truthed you thus far, you will not feel safe until you have full disclosure. Many spouses consider intercourse to be a deal-breaker. Spouses who are in the fog, believe that they are going to split anyhow, so intercourse is on the table. Then when they are shocked out of the fog, they are literally cornered; they believe that if they admit to intercourse, the offended spouse will want a divorce.
You are four days into this, and that is hardly the time to make decisions.