Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: In the fort behind the sofa
Re: My personal success story (so far)
First, you have to realize this: your story is not unique. Neither is your wife.
There are many threads here similar to yours. Too many.
In these others the WW will admit to what your W did when caught : kissing, spending time with OM, etc.
Do you watch police shows? The suspect sometimes pleads guilty to a lesser charge ( manslaughter vs homicide ) because the penalty is less.
Your W was caught so she admitted guilt to a lesser 'crime'. We've seen this before. The H is still very upset but somewhat relieved to know the truth. But, it's not the truth.
Axioms of TAM : If she says they kissed, they had sex. If it was only three times, it was twenty. Oral, of course. No protection. Ad nauseam.
And, I think you know this in your gut.
“The time's gone by for sentiment and all that foolery. Mercy's all very well but after all it's justice that clinches the bargain.”
“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”