Re: Cheating I think but she denies all of it
Ok, thanks for the responses so far. Moving the thread to the right place definately upped the ante.
1. I have GPS, her car is tracked for her firm, so i know her movements as I do the submissions each month
2. I can track her phone, it is a shared account on apple, so i have find my iphone
3. I know "Tom", and have done for 2 years. Family man, lives locally, has kids - seems very strange for him too
I had got past the first emotion affair, of the texts, she was so convincing and i believed her, and everything added up.
Most of the notes after this, and through the start of this year, have been that, friendly but nothing more untwoard. then there are the random curve balls every now and again.
the so-called setup in her eyes the other week is what made me snap again. Now the only saving grace that that went in is that the language was completely not in keeping with what and how this guy would say it. remember i've seen a lot of boring stuff from the two of them that is friendly, but not flirtatious or even remotely sexual. Then it really laid on heavy in a very quick fashion. NONE of the notes, email drafts, texts, prior whatsapps had come remotely close to this, other than the original messages with "Adam" and even then the language was different.
The ONLY thing that makes me beleive there has been ANY contact between the two is the "setup" from a few weeks ago. If it was not for this, it would all be emotional affair - which i know is no better and can be worse, but is easier to deal with.
At present this guy is in another country for 8 weeks, and has been already for two, so everhthing at present is messages only. I don't beleive for a second she is video-ing herself and sending them, the recovery software pics up deleted photos and videos when it scans. It is only whatsapp that is the issue. once deleted, its gone. she knows about the web interface that i was using and recording through the night, so she can check beforehand.
I know and get what you are all saying, but it is her utter defence, which of course can be lied, and puton and puton to an exceptionally high degree, but she is so stonewalled in it. She offers me her phone and says i can use the recovery software witghout issue - with her there, but the issue is whatsapp, which is her prime method of communication. she is not smart enough to know that once its deleted, everything is 100% deleted, unlike photos and messages etc which can be recovered.