Re: and she's going to leave him ?
some can forgive and some can't.
and you won't know until your in that position. and you might think you can even want too with all your heart but inside you can't when you come to that realization then its time to pull the plug.
as your going through all this there might be some anger that comes out well I say if the cheater wants to be truly with you then they would be remorseful and eat a fair bit of **** trying to do all they can to rebuild the trust. But even they have a breaking point where they might say ok enough is enough.
thats how one should act after ripping your husbands heart out.